Kemit-- A Story of Transition

Meet Kemit (and her handsome family!)...this girl's got my dream hair!



CN: Were you a long term or short term transitioner, and why?
I was a medium term transitioner, Lol! Sad to say it, but I dragged out a short term transition because I didn't think I would look right without enough hair on my head...I'd been called Big Head forever..so I desperately wanted to cover it up. I felt like it was too much to deal with both the head and hair..thus the medium transition. Fortunately as time went on, I kept thinking why am I so concerned with other peoples opinions, I decided to take control and one major mini chop and a touch up mini chop later I felt more like myself than ever before. I embraced both my beautiful head and hair! :-)

CN: When did you do your first/last Mini-Chop? What was your initial reaction to your natural hair?

My last Perm was on Oct.13, 2007. My first mini chop was a major one, done exactly 11 months later on Sept. 13 2008, my 2nd (because I clearly missed some permed and heat damaged ends) was on Dec.29, 2008. My initial reaction was 'WOW this is pretty short', but then I started checking out the curl pattern and the shine and fell into super strong like mode with my curly locks.

CN: How did family and friends react to the new you? What was your response to them?
I was one of the luckier ones. I never got any of the negative feedback from family and friends. My family was used to natural curls thanks to my mom, who has been natural her entire life (with the exception of three minutes back in '83 when she rocked the perm for a sec). She's been my Hair Idol for the longest. Also, I was fortunate enough to have several friends who were transitioning around the same time, and even if they don't know it, each and every one of them helped me out tremendously, when it came to helping me stick with my decision.

CN: What was your transition routine (products included)?
Quick disclaimer..I have to admit, I wasn't always the most consistent with this routine..but for the most part this is how it went down..Lol
My transition routine consisted of weekly Olive Oil Baggy Treatments, were I'd leave the oil in overnight. Sometimes I'd add essential oils such as Lavender, Chamomile, Rosemary, and/or Texas Cedar wood to the mix for some extra oomph. I'd rinse the oil mixture out in the morning, and then I would co-wash with Suave Naturals (sometimes adding Lemon juice to clarify and soften). I detangled with DevaCurl OneC, I would rinse and then add some more as my leave in. Finally I'd use my spray mixture of DevaCurl OneC/Water/Lavender EO to either set my hair, or to help in the bunning process. I'd seal with Raw Shea Butter.

CN: What was your staple hair style during the transition?
My staple hair styles during my transition were LOTS of buns (both high and low), Braid Outs and Twist outs and finally Braids.

CN: How did you moisturize your hair to prevent breakage at the new growth line?
I used Raw Shea Butter like it was going out of style. I also made a lot of my own oily concoctions and would use them in conjunction with the Shea Butter. My hair seemed to love it, so I just kept right on with it. I also left lots of conditioner in my hair when using it as a leave in. I would baggy(using a moisture and then oil to seal, then placing a bag over the area allowing to sit overnight) at the ends or over my whole head when it crossed my mind to do so (which was like once or twice a month) and that was about it...

CN: Why did you choose to go natural?
I chose to go natural for a variety of reasons. The main one being my need to be in line with my healthier, all natural, holistic, hippy chick self. I'd already been in the process of changing A LOT of things in and around me to reflect my healthier attitude. I was trying my hardest to make better decisions about the products I was putting in and on my body. I didn't think it made sense to change all of that but still run to the salon to get a relaxer every 6 to 8 weeks, saturating my scalp with crazy chemicals. Thus the transition, which has been one of THE BEST decision I've ever made in my entire life. I am absolutely IN LOVE with my crazy curls. Thank you SO MUCH Nikki for helping to make my transition a positive one! I'll NEVER EVER go back!!

the perm...


the bun..(that's one of my brothers fyi..lol)


transitioning braids..


both are brothers as well..the one in the red rocks a curly head too :-D

23 Weigh in!:
Heavenly Hummingbird said...

its good to hear that i am not the only one who has been called big head most of my life!!! Her hair is so beautiful!!! such a pretty girl :)

Milan said...

Very pretty hair! I luv how big it is. You got some fine brothers, girl! lol

Ruby Danielle said...

LOVE your volume... ;) Beautiful...

Kemit said...
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Kemit said...

Your Dream Hair? WOW Nikki, that's an AWESOME compliment!! I'm sitting here with the flu and you totally made my day with that one!!

Milan, Heavenly Hummingbird & Ruby Danielle, Thank you! Yes she's a Big girl, with a mind of her own, doing whatever she wants whenever she wants Lol. Clearly, I was the one that had to get on her agenda..:-)

satin doll said...

Pretty girl with beautiful hair! do you have a fotki?

Zena said...

YAY!!!! Kemit, You made Curly NIKKI!!!!

This is AWESOME, best CN post ever, yeah, I'm biased.

LadyCook said...

Beautiful hair and family!!

nellboogie said...

So. Fly.

NappySince10/01/08 said...

I know about the Big Head nickname too. I am the owner of a big forehead (which is my fave feature) lol. Shouts out to my high head and big head girls woot woot :-)
Lovely hair and cute bro ;)

Michelle said...

Just a heaping load of fierceness :)

Anonymous said...

She kind of reminds me of Eve in the pic with the braids. Fab hair!

Anonymous said...

Lol. This is a great story. I too have been called big head forever! That is one of the main reasons I have been transitioning so long. I've always dreamed of rocking a pixie like Halle, but I knew my dome wouldn't allow it. This may help me on my decision to cut sooner!

Stefanie said...

Look @ my friend!!!!!!!!! Yep her hair is the bomb!!!! Congrats Kemit!

Anonymous said...

Her hair is gorgeous and so are her dimples. Oh, the brothers aren't bad either. LOL ;-)

Butterfly73 said...

Shooo u do got that dream hair girl!!
hope u feel better

M3RLz said...

Love your hair!

suave naturals conditioner said...

Oh man. That's such great hair! I love this post!

nadiahawaii said...

Love your hair!!! Love the family curls too :)

Pinkrage said...

I LOVE the volume of your hair. It looks great on you.

Princess said...

Your hair looks great. You are a beautiful girl and it compliments your head very well lol.

JuneEllieJ said...

Absolutely perfect on you - and you've got my dream hair too!

Monique Denise said...

I'm LATE!! This is my first time seeing this!! That's my friend!! GO KEMIT! GO KEMIT!!!

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