3/29/2010

Pam-- A Story of Transition

Posted by CURLYNIKKI |

Meet Pam...freshly BC'ed and loving it!

CN: Were you a long term or short term transitioner, and why?

Midway between long and short. I transitioned for 7 months. My original goal was for a year, but the anticipation and stress of two textures got to me.

CN: When did you BC? What was your initial reaction to your natural hair?
I BC'd March 14th, shockingly I had no major reaction to my hair directly. I was just so relieved to finally be chemically free that I paid no attention to my texture or length (until I went to style it later on).

CN:How did family and friends react to the new you? What was your response to them?
Well my initial family is made up of my husband and 3 boys and they were very supportive. They were kind of like its cool, you look like you. Only one of my sisters has seen it and it was a little shocking for her, coworkers are a mix, most are totally uneducated as to how to take care for their own natural hair, that they have a closed mine and feel all you can do is wear an afro. They have no knowledge that natural hair is way more versatile than relaxed. I don't feel a need to explain or respond to people that have no room for people who are different from what they feel is normal. I just have to respect their opinion, and pray that they respect mine.

CN:What was your transition routine?
My transition routine was mainly co washing once a week on Wednesday and shampoo on Sunday. I co washed with one of many conditioners that I had but my favorite was L'Oreal VivePro, it made my hair so soft.

CN: What was your staple hair style during the transition?
Bantu-knot outs, it was basically the only thing I did. I rocked a few braid-outs but could never get them to not be frizzy.

CN: How did you moisturize your hair to prevent breakage at the new growth line?
I moisturized with a spray mixture of conditioner, glycerin and water daily. I also used natural oils and Shea butter.

CN: Why did you choose to go natural?
Many reasons, I have wanted to be chemically free for a long time, but was so afraid of what society would think that I put my own wants behind me. I think natural hair is just beautiful, simply put. I like being unique and when I walk in a room now, I am not among the sea of relaxed hair, weaves, or braids. I am just different. If I want to wear my hair straight, I can, I can wear it naturally curly, wash it and go, braid it, swim in it, not worry about the rain, the humidity, the 4 hour salon appointments and most of all not be bound by the standards of what others think is beautiful. Basically I am free to be me!

Bantu knot-out (Transition)

Braid-out

Chopped!





8 comments:

Anonymous said...

Your hair is so cute now that you've BC'ed, and trust me, you'll get that length back in no time! Enjoy the stages as they go by.

mikmont said...

your skin & hair is beautiful!

Anonymous said...

well said about your co-workers!!

don't waste your time with close-minded idiots - life is too frigging short!!

lovin' the flowers!

Anonymous said...

Work it girl! :-) You look great.

Sunbaby said...

I really like you with short hair better. Work the curls, girl.

Miss Pam said...

cute! And my name is Pam too! Check out my blog!

http://stylingcurls.blogspot.com/

kb said...

Congrats Mommy :-)

Anonymous said...

The BC compliments your beauty. Good choice!

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