CN: How long have you been natural?
I've been natural my whole life; however, I very recently started wearing my hair out more because of all the new products for curly hair. I had no idea my hair was curly until high school, and even then I wasn't sure how to tame it so I always wore it in a bun. Now, there's so many products out there and so much support. There's a new wave of naturals that have stripped the shame of wearing natural hair!


CN: What is your current regimen?
I wash my hair about every two weeks, detangle, braid it into two large french braids, and let it air dry. I deep condition once a month and co-wash once a week when I'm wearing wash and go's.

Current products
I've recently fallen in love with Shea Moisture products and I think I'm ready to make a long term commitment. I'm using the Curl & Shine Shampoo with the Yucca & Aloe Thickening Growth Milk as a leave-in. I use the Curl Enhancing Smoothie as a styler for braid-outs and the Deep Treatment Masque for deep conditioning. I love the natural ingredients...they smell amazing!


CN: How do you maintain Length? Moisture?
I trim my ends as needed with the Split Ender. It helps get rid of split ends while maintaining hair length. I deep condition monthly and reapply a leave-in almost daily to make sure my hair never dries out.


CN: Night time routine?
I dampen my hair, apply a moisturizing leave-in and sleep in a satin bonnet. When I wake up my hair is so soft!

CN: What would you tell a new natural, or transitioning diva?
Figure out what works for you and stick with it! Although I'm not a new natural, I too have found it fairly easy to become a product junkie. You get so wrapped up in the culture of it all and before you know it, your rent money just went to your hair. It's great to try new things, but like the old saying goes...if it ain't broke, don't fix it!


CN: What's the best thing about being naturally glamorous?
I love that my hair is so versatile. I don't have to plan my workouts, swim sessions, etc. around my hair. It does what I tell it!

CN: Anything else you want to add?
CurlyNikki is great! I'm glad I can still be apart of this phenomenon although I've been "natural" all my life. Now, I'm proud to wear the title!



CN Says;
Has anyone else tried the Split Ender?





7/31/2011

Natural Hair Workshops

Posted by CURLYNIKKI |


Ayesha writes;

Have you ever paid to attend a workshop? If so, how much did u pay? Was the information worth the money?

I've always wanted to attend one but I couldn't find one locally or affordable enough for me to consider traveling. But my prayers have been answered and it's a workshop in my city for $50 per course (2 courses offered) and now I'm having second thoughts, what would you do?

Thanks in advance!


CN Says;

I'm not one for workshops... my attention span is entirely too short. I learn by reading (at my leisure) and doing, but everyone is different.
However, one benefit is that you get to meet and mingle with other naturals in your area. I would consider going if for nothing more than that! The meaningful connections you'll make with other curlies could lead to meetups in the future!


CN: How long have you been natural?
I finally made up my mind to go all out and forgo any chemical processes to my hair altogether in January 2001, with my BC echoing Jada Pinkett Smith when she rocked the super short ‘do. Although, I think mine may have been shorter because you could actually see the skin of my scalp! Whoa!! But obviously no regrets and I haven’t looked back!! 10 years natural and counting!!!

CN: Were you a long term or short term transitioner, and why?
When I was in college, I rocked versions of Toni Braxton, T-Boz and the Halle Berry's hairstyles that were popular during that time. THEN, I saw Nicci Gilbert, the lead singer of Brownstone and I instantly fell in love with the short, curly and texturized look. Eventually, I worked up the courage to try the style myself and loved it! I did switch back and forth between a texturizer and full on relaxed hair a couple of times during those years. I don’t remember what the catalyst was for me to eventually go “natural”; I just remember wanting to do it. So, it’s safe to say that there was no transition for me, I just went in and let the hairstylist cut it off. Why no transition? I was simply not attached to my hair and felt confident enough to let it go and start anew. I’m attached to it now because I love it more that I ever did when it was texturized or relaxed.

CN: What is your current regimen?
Although I’ve been natural over 10 years, I’ve only recently started to experiment with ways to style and take care of my hair. Thanks YouTube!! I used to do wash and go’s on the regular, but it got to be too much and my styles didn’t last but a day. So now I co-wash and detangle maybe every 1-2 weeks, because I regularly wear my hair in twists or twist-out styles. I do a wash with shampoo 1-2 times monthly, depending on what my hair needs and activities I’ve been involved in, i.e. exercising, swimming, etc. I deep condition at least once a month or as needed. When I’m co-washing/shampooing, I detangle with my wide tooth comb and/or Denman brush, and twist into big sections to prep my hair for the style I may be wearing. I then apply my oils and moisturizing products, and style as usual, whatever that may be at the time.


Current products

Shampoo: Tressemme Naturals Lower Sulfates Nourishing Moisture Shampoo
Co-wash Conditioner: Tressemme Naturals Silicone Free Nourishing Moisture Conditioner
Deep Treatment: Garnier Fructis 3 Minute Undo Dryness Reversal Treatment
Styling: Shea Moisture Curl Enhancing Smoothie
Kinky Curly Curling Custard or Eco Styler Olive Oil Gel
Mixture of coconut, jojoba, grape seed and olive oils to nourish
Spray water mixed w/ above mentioned oils to hydrate and replenish my hair in
between washes.

CN: How do you maintain Length? Moisture?
To maintain my length, I try to trim regularly, although it doesn’t always fall into a particular schedule like I would like it to. Sometimes I will trim my ends when they are in twists, but I prefer to do it on dry, detangled hair. That way it allows me to really see my hair and be more accurate when I trim. As for moisture, we all know it starts from the inside out and drinking water is my way of helping that along. As for the outside, my moisture spray is my best friend. I seal it in w/ my Shea moisture when needed, and that has helped me up to this point.


CN: Night time routine?
I sleep on a satin pillow case, as well as wear a bonnet and/or a satin scarf for extra protection. I’ll mist my hair before bed, seal it in and wrap it up! No matter if I’m sleeping w/ my twists loose or have flexi rods in my hair, satin is my Godsend.

CN: What would you tell a new natural, or transitioning diva?
As hard as it may seem at times, be fearless, fierce and be proud!! Do not, I repeat do not think that your hair will be like the next person's!! It may mimic that person’s hair, but your hair is unique to you. Experiment, research, ask questions and find what works for you and then do you all day everyday. I hear daily how much my hair is loved and that people envy and admire that I wear my hair in its natural state. The new natural or transitioning diva is actually doing what so many others are afraid to do, but want so bad. It’s not bad to be loved, envied or admired for having the courage to go against the grain. Stand out and be an individual. Shine on my natural divas!!!


CN: What's the best thing about being naturally glamorous?
Freedom and versatility. We naturals have just as many options, if not more, when it comes to our hair and the styles that can be achieved. The constraints of the ladies that are not natural are typically not our crosses to bear. What a wonderful feeling!

CN: Anything else you want to add?
I invite and welcome all new naturals, transitioning and natural “hopefuls. There is more than enough room for us all. Natural is beautiful…

7/29/2011

Hide Ya Kids... Hide Ya Wife...

Posted by CURLYNIKKI |

Go Boogie, Go Boogie, Go!...Go! Go! Go!

...that's what we chant when Boogie is well, boogying. She loves to dance... and I mean LOVES.TO.DANCE. It doesn't matter where we are or how sleepy or grumpy she may be... whether it's bag pipes (true story) or her daddy casually repeating one of Jay's lyrics, when she hears what sounds like music, she can't help herself. The rhythm gets her and she almost instinctively begins to sway, bop and wiggle. It's the cutest thing and super fitting that she was dancing in the middle of the floor just before she took her very first, unassisted steps! Four monumental steps!

OMG!

I was Facetiming with Syl so she could see her niece and check out the new living space. The camera was focused on Boogie when she started jamming to a recorded episode of 'Yo Gaba Gaba'- my new favorite show- she stopped and just took off. Took the hell off!

Mind blown. Syl was shouting. I was screaming like a maniac. Scared the pee out of Gia. She was looking at me like I had lost my mind. And I think I did. I knew this day was quickly approaching, but I most certainly wasn't prepared for it. She'll be 11 months tomorrow and she's totally mobile, points at objects, mimics my every move, says 'dada', and laughs hysterically and crawls at top speeds away from me when she has something she knows she shouldn't... and all this from what was a loose neck baby just a few months ago. I knew walking was the next milestone, but I still have so many emotions right now! I'm proud, I'm happy, excited for her, a little sad... but more important, I'm hiding all my ish. Gia is super destructive and NOTHING is safe. This is not a drill.

Later Gators,
Nik


Kamille writes;

Hi Nikki and fam! I found this article a while back and finally decided to send it in.

Wondering if anyone agrees with what the author is saying. Is she right? I think that sometimes our natural waves, kinks, coils, and curls can be distracting for people who just can't seem to be able to focus on anything but our hair. And if it's that much of a problem, we can always tuck it back so everyone can feel "relaxed" and "focused". I just don't like the overall tone of this article. I want to hear from the CN community!

Excerpts from The Daily Beast below, full article HERE.

"There’s a time when a wild mane of wavy auburn hair sends just the right message of breezy nonconformity and proud individuality, but when you’re trying to convince the world that you’re an aboveboard, by-the-rules, straitlaced sort of manager—who’s done nothing illegal—boho hair plays to your disadvantage."

"It’s always risky to attach politics, social status, or cultural affinity to a hairstyle—to endow it with too much meaning. Surely the many debates and lawsuits stemming from disagreements over cornrows, Afros, and dreadlocks have driven home this lesson. Still, in such a serious situation as an interrogation by Parliament, why risk being misread, mischaracterized, or misunderstood?

Brooks wasn’t technically on trial, but this was one of those fateful moments in the unfolding of a drama when public opinion will become official historical record. And while her clothes said serious business, her hair said, “I’m here for the Tuck & Patti concert.”


CN says;


SMDH. Really Robin? Really?
Natural lawyers, what say you?

Hola Chicas,

It's that time again... a virtual play date to celebrate the beautiful, curly babies in our lives! Click on the images to enlarge them:


Agnes
This is a picture of my three little angels on Memorial Day!!! Aiden, my son is 2 and the twins Kaitlynn and Carleigh are 4 months!!! Aiden is the curly one for now! lol
Tasha
I wanted to share a pic of my daughter Amaya and her first puff! I took down her twists, sprayed her hair with the spritz bottle and detangled with the denman brush. She loved it!!!
Angela
This is Josh, who was 2 y.o. at the time. I had no clue about natural products back then so I was probably still oiling his scalp with ProLine hair food and moisturizing with Pink. I had just taken his cornrows out.
Krissy
This is my little munchkin Jas. She will be 2 at the end of Oct. I make sure I keep her hair moisturized daily. I wash her hair every week and half. I try and keep it braided to protect it. she loves her hair! Precious
Too cute! Pick it out!

Paula
This is my 22 month old daughter Zora rocking her afro puffs and enjoying saying, "Cheese!".
Ashley Bates
A model, Lauren, for my upcoming natural hair meetup! We used Kinky Curly Curling Custard and Knot Today to style.
Nakeya
I love your site. This is my 10 year old daughter rocking her two strand twist Mohawk style. The products used on her hair were Shida Natural's Healthy Hair Care Products and Bio Fusion Olive Oil Products.

Calandra
This is my 4 year old daughter, Sinaia! I used Miss Jessie's Super Slip Sudsy Shampoo, Miss Jessie's Super Sweet Back Treatment and Miss Jessie's Baby Buttercreme. She is wearing cornrows with two-strand twists.

Nubianyo
This is my baby Jade at 19 months old using the Curls baby line, Its a Curl.


Send in your favorite picture with a caption (complete with product recommendations) to nikki@curlynikki.com.

I'll post several every other Friday, in the order I receive them.
Be sure to use 'Curly Baby' as the subject line! **We need more ASAP!!!**

7/29/2011

Show and Tell- Fierce Friday!

Posted by CURLYNIKKI |

Hola chicas!

It's that time again! The images below are of CN readers at their flyyest...at work, on the town, and with the fam. Showing us all that natural hair is not a fad, it's a way of life...an extension of our beauty! Click on the images to enlarge them:

Kiarra
Using Cantu Shea Butter Leave-in and my Shea butter mix, I did small to medium braids and rocked them for 2 days. This morning when I took them out, I had the best braid-out I've ever done! I was so excited to finally have something I wanted to share for Fierce Friday.
Adiasha
Happy Hour at a rooftop lounge with my girls. My hair is braided at the side and the rest was double strand twist. For this night I took the twist out after two weeks.
Catherine
I've been natural for 10 years! My sister took this picture of me at an Italy themed dinner party I hosted. I am a true fan of Miss Jessies Curly Pudding (which I wear on day one seen here) and Curly Buttercreme (as my upkeep). Thanks!

Joslyn Richardson
My friend Tasha and I at Lola lounge in St. Louis. I'm on the left and rocking a twist-out fro. Your site was so helpful to me during my transition and still now that I am natural. Keep up the good work!
Pamela
Just wanted to show off my version of the “Twist-N-Curl”. I actually flat twisted my hair dry with a little shea butter and then curled the ends with satin covered sponge rollers. I loved the results!

Katrina
This is me rocking my first successful dry twist-out using nothing but my glycerin rose water mix and Ecostyler with Argan Oil gel. I had to take a corporate photo for work and agonized over how to wear my hair, knowing that the picture would be seen by all of the partners and VPs of my company; A big blow out Afro just would not work for this day. I was very happy with the end product! And apparently so were they because they chose me to be in a corporate commercial, whoo hooo!

Kenya
Getting ready for work. This is a dry twist-out using Ohm Body Sweet Hair Pudding and Oyin Burnt Sugar Pomade.

Roshonda
Getting ready to go to church with Hubby and our babies. I am 16 months post relaxer and this is a braid-n-curl I did... it is quickly becoming my go-to transition style. I'm loving it!!


Jackie
This pic was taken 6/16/2011 after leaving Bible Study. I BC'd a year ago and have been looking for different styles to try. This time, I used Via Natural Soft-Hold Gel on wet hair, put a clip on the back, and let the rest fall...for a very simple up-do :-)

Danielle
I was at my sister's nuptial gathering. I did a coil-out on my hair!

**If you don't see yourself today, rest assured that you'll be up in the coming weeks! I post in the order I receive them!**

**To submit**:
Send in your favorite picture with a caption detailing where you were (or where you were headed to), along with a brief description of your hairstyle, to nikki@curlynikki.com. I'll post several each Friday. Be sure to use 'Fierce Friday' as the subject line!
We always need more!

by Tracey Wallace of NaturallyCurly.com

I don’t even know where to begin. I mean, we’ve seen curly hair portrayed in a lot of different ways, but Summer’s Eve’s new commercial sent shock waves through the NaturallyCurly office. No joke, we were speechless.

The commercial, if you haven’t yet seen it or heard about it, features a hand puppet playing a talking vagina. Yea, you read that right–a talking vagina. The whole gig is part of their “Hail to the V” campaign claiming, “no one gives you more products to keep your vagina happy.”

Now, as if the talking hand claiming to be our “vertical smile” wasn’t enough, Summer’s Eve produced different commercials for different races, insinuating quite a few stereotypes in both the Black and Hispanic versions.

One of those stereotypes involved the idea that Black women style their hair more often and to display that—yes, I know you see this coming—they put hair on it. They put our beloved natural hair on top of your talking you-know-what. Let’s talk about what they’re insinuating now.

The commercial, which has since been yanked from play, has many people up in arms about how a conservative Dallas advertising agency didn’t see what everyone else did–you know, the insanity of it.

Yet, in the face of adversity, the agency and the company have stood by the advertisement saying only that, “The decision to take the videos down is about acknowledging that there’s backlash here. We want to move beyond that and focus on the greater mission.”

For viewers, moving past the “ay-yi-yi” of the Hispanic hand and what some critics are calling a “jive-talking hand-‘gina with a ‘fro” is just much too difficult.

Stan Richards, the founder of The Richards Group, the advertising agency behind the mayhem, said that the videos were meant to be “relatable,” not offensive, and perhaps to a human without a vagina, they are.

Of course, some critics are saying that Summer’s Eve pulled out too quickly. After all, the brand hasn’t had this much publicity in a while. In fact, one commenter on AdWeek even stated, “Ironically, I wish Summer’s Eve had shown a little more balls.”

In the end, it’s all about what the consumer thinks, here at NaturallyCurly, we’re not so sure either of the companies involved really thought about this one. Or, is it the most genius advertising campaign of all time?

You tell us. Because really, we’re still in shock!


7/28/2011

Ashia- Naturally Glam Hair Idol

Posted by CURLYNIKKI |

CN: How long have you been natural?
I BC’ed September 30, 2009, so it’s been almost two years.

CN: Were you a long term or short term transitioner, and why?
I started transitioning pretty much by accident. My sister had been natural for six years when I started transitioning and every other word that came out her mouth was “fotki” or “CG method” or “4a hair” or some the other natural hair lingo that I couldn’t follow. I was convinced she was in a cult every time she went to a curly meet-up. She encouraged me to go natural a lot, but all I could remember were lots and lots of tears at even the sight of a comb from the time I was a very young girl.

In the spring of my sophomore year in college, I was taking aquatics, the summer was on its way, and I was preparing to study abroad the following fall. So I knew I didn’t want to be bothered with my hair too much, and straightening it all the time would be too much of a hassle. By mid-summer, I realized I could handle the whole transitioning thing, especially with a lot of help from my sister and my best friend (who went natural a year before I did), and I made a commitment to myself to see it through.

Anyway, I planned on being a long term transitioner because I’ve always had long hair and was afraid to cut it. But the more I saw new growth, the more I was frustrated with finding styles to keep my hair healthy and pretty. After a while, I was disgusted (I know that’s a strong word, but that’s how I felt at the time) with seeing the two different textures, and I wanted the perm gone IMMEDIATELY. So one night while I was abroad (without everyone at home asking why I wanted to cut my “long, pretty hair”), I made the decision to cut it all off. The next day, I walked into a barber shop, and before I knew it, one curl, two curls, three curls were gone. I absolutely have never, ever for one second regretted BC’ing.


CN: What is your current regimen?
Water is my hair’s BFF, so I condition or co-wash about three times a week. When I first transitioned, I experimented with a million and one different conditioners to see what worked for me. But now that I have my staple products, I like to mix it up. And I always, always use a leave-in. My favs are anything from Giovanni, Mixed Chicks Leave-in, Jane Carter Condition and Sculpt, Shea Moisture Restorative Conditioner, and Knot Today Leave-in.

I detangle once or twice a week. I section my hair (I’m up to about eight sections now), and I just work my way from the bottom up. When I finish with each section, I braid it and leave it for the night. (I used to twist my hair after detangling, but I’m finding that I like braid-outs better than twist-outs – I never know what I’m going to get with a twist-out!)

I rarely shampoo (maybe once or twice a month, or as needed) because I haven’t found one that doesn’t dry my hair out.

Styling is pretty much whatever I’m in the mood for that day and have the time to – updos, braid-outs, twist-outs, flat twists, etc.


CN: How do you maintain Length? Moisture?
I’m not so concerned about length. Actually, I’m a much happier person with short hair, and the only reason I’m growing it out now is because it’s been so long since I’ve seen my hair long and natural like when I was a kid. (The length I’m at now is pretty annoying because I feel like a 4th grader with some of the styles I find myself doing, so I’m always looking for new ones!)

In terms of moisture, jojoba oil is a God-send! If I seal my hair with jojoba oil over a leave-in conditioner or a cream, the result is always amazing – shiny and so moisturized.

CN: Night time routine?
I don’t have a very strict night time routine, except to follow the cardinal rule: Never sleep without a satin bonnet!

CN: What would you tell a new natural, or transitioning diva?
Know that there will be some rough times ahead. There were times when I just couldn’t understand why my hair hated me so much. There were times when I was so overwhelmed by all of the products, the regimens, the different kinds of brushes – literally, I used to walk through the store reading product reviews on my phone as I saw things I wanted to try.

BUT also know that there are so many more good times. Those I can’t describe to you. You have to stick with it and find out that you’re hair actually loves you.


CN: What's the best thing about being naturally glamorous?
There are so many amazing things about being naturally glam – like changing up my look so easily, and of course, not allowing the weather to dictate my hairstyle for the day! The best, by far though, is knowing that I don’t have to change a single thing about myself to look in the mirror and FEEL glamorous.

by Sherrell Dorsey of Organic Beauty Vixen

I was helping my aunt braid some cornrows in her hair last week as she was too tired working in her salon all day to finish her own hair. We got into a great discussion about moder day salon services, the lack of care and attention stylists may actually give their clients and how she personally works to build great relationships in addition to healthy hair for every woman that sits in her chair.

I love talking about hair, service and relationships. There’s something so intimately personal about someone’s hands in your hair that its always important to know who you’re hiring to invade your personal emotions, concerns and issues. No one gets closer to you in your hair than your gynecologist (and only one of them I don’t mind stopping to talk to in the grocery store).

Through all of my research and reporting on the salon industry for online outlets like My Salon Scoop, it never occurred to me that stylists weren’t the only ones with dilemmas and hangups. Sure there are many folks out there doing hair unlicensed, or uneducated about products or simply want to take your money, but then for as many off-brand stylists there are some superstars.

I’ve been lucky to encounter some of my favorite stylists including Keith Campbell, Felicia Leatherwood and Danyale Thomas who have made me trust and invest my dollars into quality and caring hair care.

Check out my hair from my appointment last week at Seattle natural hair salon Good Hair. My stylist Zue really took the time to educate me about the products I was using, the things I was doing wrong (oiling my hair too much, tying knots in my locks when they started to break etc).

If you want to get a great experience with your stylist it isn’t just about choosing the right one, but it’s also about working with your stylist to develop an effective hair care plan. You have to be completely honest with your stylist about your hair, your routine and your past mistakes believe me, you may think you’re fooling them but the hair never lies.

Here are a few common lies stylists hear from clients:

  • I don’t dye my hair - Sweetheart, if you have some grey, it’s okay to admit it. Your stylist will eventually see your roots. Be honest about previous dye jobs and how often you do them so that your stylist doesn’t over-process your hair.

  • Yes, I drink lots of water - Your scalp tells it all! When you’re not getting enough water or much needed hydration, your stylist can see and feel it in your scalp. Remember that healthy hair starts from the inside out.

  • I don’t heat style my hair – If your hair is dry, brittle, burnt and breaking, your stylist will know you’ve had an encounter one too many times with your blow dryer and flat iron. Come clean about heat styling so that your stylist can give you regular protein treatments and advise you on the best products to repair damage.

Things you should always be honest with your stylist about:

  1. Medications - Always talk about any medications or treatments you are taking for illnesses. These can sometimes interact with different chemical services or cause hair loss. Don’t surprise your stylist. If you don’t feel comfortable speaking about your personal health issues in the salon, shoot your stylist an email or bring a note for their eyes only.
  2. Allergies – Lots of products used in the salon can cause adverse reactions to clients with allergies. Inform your stylist of any known topical reactions you have to certain products or chemical services. If you have any
  3. Pregnancy – If you have a bun in the oven, steer clear of chemical services such as color and relaxers which can cause toxic exposure to you and your baby. Keep your stylist updated as your hair can change texture, thin and even fall out, so prepare your stylist well in advance.

Work with your stylist for a happy ending every time by developing a relationship built on honesty and trust. You’ll find that you won’t have to chair hop from salon to salon or waste your time with Suzie stylist down the street that will take your money and run.

Have you ever been dishonest with your stylist? Please share your story!


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Sherrell Dorsey is a natural beauty expert, writer, speaker and advocate of health, wellness and sustainability in communities of color. In addition to creating OrganicBeautyVixen.com, Sherrell writes beauty articles for Tyra Banks's beauty and fashion site TypeF.com, Jones Magazine, MySalonScoop.com and Posh Beauty. Follow Sherrell on twitter at www.twitter.com/organicvixen and connect with her on facebook at http://www.facebook.com/OBVMedia


Super Food of the Week: Venison

Venison is a highly prized, wonderfully delicious and nutritious meat that comes from deer that are either wild or farm raised. The flavor of the meat is directly related to the animal's diet, and is usually described as having a deep woody, yet berry like taste. Typically the texture is supple and tender. Although venison may not grace your dinner table very often it can actually be a great addition to a healthy diet plan. Venison contains high amounts if protein, B vitamins (B12, B2, B3, and B6), as well as iron.

Venison is a great source of protein and, unlike most meats, is low in fat, especially saturated fat. Four ounces of venison supplies about 68% of the daily value for protein for only 179 calories and 1.4 grams of saturated fat. A serving (4 ounces) of venison also provides about 28% of the daily value of iron. Boosting iron stores is a good idea for women, especially menstruating women as they are more at risk for iron deficiency. Compared to beef, venison provides well-absorbed iron for less calories and fat. It is important to note that iron is an integral component of hemoglobin, which transports oxygen from the lungs to all cells in the body, and is also a part of enzyme systems for energy production and metabolism.

As previously stated, venison is a good source for B vitamins, especially vitamin B12. In research, B vitamins have shown to reduce the risk of heart attack or stroke by preventing the build up of dangerous molecules that contribute to these conditions. Vitamin b12 has been shown to be helpful in protecting colon cells from the effects of carcinogenic toxins, thereby reducing the risk of colon cancer. Vitamin B3 (or niacin) has also been shown to reduce the risk of developing osteoarthritis, reducing the risk as much as half.

The next time you plan on serving meat for dinner, try iron-rich, vitamin packed venison. Venison is a great alternative to beef, but as with beef and other meats, care and caution should always be used when handling raw venison. Make sure it does not come in contact with other foods, especially those that will be served uncooked. If your recipe calls for marinating, you should always do so in the refrigerator as the meat is very sensitive to heat which increases chances of spoilage.

Fit Tip of the Week: Breaking Through Roadblocks

The problem is that you want to exercise regularly, but somehow you keep hitting roadblocks- those pesky little persuasive excuses that come up for not sticking to a fitness plan. To make fitness a part of your life, you must identify your roadblocks and find ways to break through them. Here are some common road blocks and solutions to help over come them:

Roadblock #1: I just don't have enough time to exercise. A perceived lack of time is probably the most common excuse for not exercising. When life gets chaotic, exercise is typically the first thing to get the cut. It's very easy to convince yourself that your morning workout can wait until lunch, or maybe after dinner, and finally tomorrow.

Solution: The "stress" of life is always going to be there, but we have to keep in mind that we must take care of ourselves. If you don't take care of yourself today, it is very possible to one day find your self unable to take care of your business. Research proves that people who exercise are not only healthier, but also more productive. Just 10 to 30 minutes a day of exercise, if done consistently, can provide health benefits. While planning your day, plan a 30-minute appointment with yourself.

Roadblock #2: I have no energy. After a long day at work, it's so very tempting to go home, prop your feet up and "tune out" in front of the television.

Solution: Try scheduling your workout at a different time. Try getting up 45-minutes earlier and go for a morning walk (and if you have a dog, bring them along too!). Another solution is to keep your fitness gear in the car and go straight to the gym on the way home and schedule your workout with a buddy. Nobody wants to disappoint a friend by flaking out, right? Also it's important to note that exercise does give you more energy!

Roadblock #3. I hate exercise. This holds some truth to it only in the fact that exercise can seem like a chore if the activity that you've chosen doesn't appeal to you.

Solution: This one is a pretty easy one. If you can discover a type of exercise you enjoy and stick with it, eventually you will find the need to exercise, physically and mentally. Think about the things you enjoy and use it to your advantage. If you love music then bring along your iPod on your morning walk and get your 30-minutes of physical activity while you sing along to your favorite songs. I typically find that once people find a physical activity that they enjoy they not only look forward to it, they also feel that their day is incomplete if they miss a workout.

Roadblock #4: I don't see any results. Ok, you've been exercising religiously for weeks and you haven't lost any weight according to your bathroom scale. Frustration makes giving up seem like the right idea.

Solution: Stay off the scale! Weight is not a very accurate way of measuring your progress. Especially if you've been strength training in your routine. The key is to think about the progress you have made. Maybe you can walk longer or lift heavier weights than you could when you first started your fitness routine. The numbers on the scale might not be changing right away but you notice your close are fitting differently (in a good way) thanks to the building of muscle. Use these victories as motivation. Even though the scale doesn't say so, you are making progress.

Roadblock #5: I will never be perfect. The all-or-nothing attitude or thinking it's not worth exercising because your body will never be "perfect".

Solution: I hear this a lot as a personal trainer. Sometimes we can be our own worst critic. Starving for perfection can lead to failure and we must keep in mind that no one is perfect. Instead of focusing on how your body looks, focus on how it feels. Just because someone looks to have the "perfect body" doesn't mean that they're in good health. Also learn to compromise. If you can't do a full 30-minute workout then try for 15-minutes. Some physical activity will always be better than none.

Until next week...

KinkySheaPT

7/28/2011

Self-Concept Thursday!

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The Importance of Inner Beauty and Confidence

by GG of Peace, Love and Pretty Things

I wish I could say that my inner confidence is not at all tied to my appearance. But that would be a damn lie. Truthfully, when I feel pretty; I feel more confident. As I get older, however, what makes me feel pretty has changed quite a bit. I'm more driven by my opinion of myself than the opinion of others. I realize that sometimes people just won't get it and I'm cool with that. Are you?

You know, it never ceases to amaze me how quickly people will give you their (negative) opinion of how you look, what you have on, if you've gained or lost weight, etc. Isn't it awesome to arrive somewhere feeling good and be told that you're looking heavier these days? Or that you have bags under your eyes? Or maybe that your hair is breaking off or falling out? I love those unsolicited comments, don't you?!

Seriously though, comments like those can put a damper on your whole day. You might feel self-conscious or uncomfortable in your skin as a result. I wish I could tell you some magical solution to make you immune to the opinions of others. But honestly, as women, we all know that there are days when we're just not feeling our inner and outer energies radiating harmoniously the way we would like. Sometimes all it takes is for someone to push the wrong button and we're thrown off for the whole day.

The truth is that even these seemingly yucky days, wrought with insecurity, can be turned into stepping stones if we use them to change how we think about self-confidence. What I mean is, challenge yourself to feel confident no matter what anyone says. Many of us only think we look good when other people tell us that we do. Remember that feeling beautiful and confident starts in your mind. Your ability to love yourself will exude radiance no matter what is going on with your external self. Develop your inner beauty and you will always feel good about yourself. And when you feel good about yourself, you will look good.

I'm sure you've seen women who are so confident and comfortable in their skin that they can pull off any outfit, any hairdo and look like perfection. All of us can have that kind of confidence. Own your individuality. Your authentic style should be tied to who you are and where you are in your life. Own your body, your skin, and your hair and love them when they cooperate and when they don't. Don't feed into negative comments and certainly don't deprecate yourself. As you become more sure of yourself, the force of your mojo will become strong within you and will shine outward! This attitude will become just as much a part of your style as the clothes you wear and how you rock them.

Here are some more posts on inner beauty and personal style:

Authenticity: Always in Style
5 Ways to Outwardly Showcase Your Inner Pretty
Face Time
Do You See What I See?
Prayer for Beauty

Now, how do you overcome your insecurities about your physical appearance? Share your tips with us!

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