11/30/2011

Look of the Week: Leopard Print Shirt Dress

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via Stylepantry-

Hope you all had a fantastic Thanksgiving. Mine was fun and filled with good food.

We snapped some pictures on my street right before dinner – wearing the perfect outfit to camouflage excessive eating. Leopard print shirt dress and bell bottoms.

Similar top here. It’s perfect and you can layer with a long sleeve tee under for the cold. Found another leopard print shirt dress here.

Flare/bell bottoms can be purchased here, or this pair on sale here and a lighter wash here.

Skinny red belt on sale here. Over size round sunnies here. My red pumps are courtesy of Lorishoes.com, but it’s no longer on their site. Found them on sale here (in different colors). Yum!

Earrings and fringe necklace c/o LindaLu Designs.


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Ok, before y’all attempt to tie me up with silk scarves, draw your afro picks and scalp me, hear me out! Natural hair is fly. In all it’s fluffy, tightly coiled, irreverently wild, attention grabbing glory, my hair is one of my favorite physical features! However, there are some days, when my hair just chaps my a@# in the worst way. I have never had a perm, so being naturally kinky/curly is all I know. It’s only natural to have moments of frustration and pride with this head of hair of mine, and lemme tell ya, I’ve had many a moment. Below are 10 things about my hair that make me happy and would drive me to drink. lol!

Sucky Thing #1: Ya know, I love my hair, but I really hate washing it. REALLY. Call it lazy, call it nasty, call it whatever you like, but I dread what’s known in my home as “Sucky Saturdays”. I get up before Mr.Rooster puts on his drawls, and get to shampooing, rinsing, conditioning, combing out, rinsing, deep treating for 30 minutes to an hour, rinsing, and plaiting my very thick/past shoulder length hair. Friday and Saturday are my favorite days of the week, but BOY do I hate wasting an entire Saturday on my hair. Wash and Go? Forget about it! Lol!

Sucky Thing #2: MY HAIR BREAKS ISH! Seriously, I go through at least 10 hair ties a month. I purchase the Goody’s ouchless hair ties for thick hair, but somehow still manage to pop them when I try to tie up my hair. My hair is so thick, I really need to get a good grip on my hair and the tie or I’ll have “fat head”. You know, that sloppy, poofy look your pony tail gets when it’s not tied tight enough? Yea, #not sexy.

Sucky Thing #3: One poor choice of a hair product or hair care habit can cause you a major setback. When I first decided that I was going to take better care of my hair, a lot of blogs and forums were bashing petroleum use in your hair. “DOWN WITH GREASE!” I screamed and pitched all of my DooGro stash. I started greasing my hair with tea tree oil and found that my scalp slowly started to resemble a bowl of cereal as the days and weeks went by . The size of my dandruff flakes were apocalyptic y’all! My hair was also extremely dry, coarse and impossible to comb through! After a month sans petroleum, I had to crawl back to Wal-Mart, purchase a honking bottle of Doo-Gro and got to greasing! My hair has been happy ever since!

Sucky Thing #4: In my head, when I think sexy time with my hubby, I don’t envision wearing my head scarf and satin bonnet. LOL! Sometimes I feel like I need to sacrifice my scarf and bonnet to look “sexy time appropriate”. I know it’s all in my head, because hubby reminds me every night to wrap it up (my hair, you freaks…lol), but I want to give him the “Chaka Khan Whip Appeal” sometimes, ya know?

Sucky Thing #5: I lose stuff in my hair all the time. *Blushing* Let me explain. I like to use my hair as an extra storage area. It’s so convenient to stick pens, pencils, and knitting needles in my hair. However, there are times when I forget to remove these objects and have them retrieved by hubby at the end of the day. Worse still is having my kids at work rifling through my hair for pens and pencils to do their homework…lol!

My Hair Rocks, Reason #1: Versatility, hand’s down. The best thing about being natural is the versatility of my hair. I can wear it big and twisted out, or I can wear it straight. I can pull it up in an afro puff or twist it into a french roll with a fancy scarf! Depending on what products I use, I can pull off a short bob or a long braid out. The possibilities are endless and I can never get bored with my hair.

My Hair Rocks, Reason #2: My hair seems to be impervious to wind. It’s so thick that even the strongest gusts of wind hit my hair like a hurricane against a brick wall. It awesome because my hair is always picture perfect when pulled back into an afro puff, but has that diva ,Diana Ross affect when I wear it out. The harder the wind blows, the bigger and more fabulous my hair gets!

My Hair Rocks, Reason #3: I stand “tall” at 5 ft nothing, so I am willing to take any help I can get! When I wear bigger styles like twist outs, twist and curls and braid outs, it seems to give me a few extra inches in height. Better still is that when I add a pair of fabulous stilettos, I go instantly go from “short” to “fun size”! YES!

My Hair Rock, Reason #4: Low maintenance. Other than the nightmarish washing/henna episodes that I have to do monthly, my hair is very low maintenance. If I run a comb through it once this week, it won’t happen again until next week. Finger combing has become my best friend :-) . If I really, REALLY, REALLY wanna leave my hair be, I can throw in some teeny weeny twists and go for at least 3 weeks without combing it!

My Hair Rocks, Reason #5: *smug smile* I hate to admit it, but one of the best things about having big, bad (as in awesome), hair is that dudes dig it. I’m married now, so the only man hands in my hair is my hubby’s, but I remember being single and just pulling down compliments and stares of admiration left and right when I wore my hair out! Guys would stop me at the mall and ask me if it was all mine, or tell me that my hair was beautiful constantly. I even caught a guy at the club sitting with his straight haired/ weaved up girlfriend, staring in awe and admiration at all the hair I was working with. He later found me and told me that he wished his lady would wear her hair “out” like mine. Then there was that time at the frat party that the dudes were flocking because I took my hair down on a dare…..Yup, ignore what some men say, majority of them dig our natural curls. Flash it, flip it, werk it honey!


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by Shelli of Hairscapades


via The Science of Black Hair

The unique relationship that exists between the protein and moisture balances within the hair strand is not simply a case of balancing opposing forces one over the other to prevent hair breakage. These two components work together synergistically to produce a healthy head of hair, and neither can work well without the other. Keeping the hair balanced between these two entities is very important.

Over the last couple of months, a few of you have expressed concerns about excessive breakage and how to address it. In addition, I myself had begun to experience it and set about diagnosing the root cause. What I realized about two months ago was that my hair might be over-conditioned/over-moisturized. “What did you say?!?! Over-CONDITIONED? Natural hair?? HERESY!!”

LOL! But seriously, about a year ago, I read about the delicate balance between protein and moisture and “filed” it in the tombs. You see, I kept my distance … a very far distance … from protein. However, I was using henna on the regular and, although I couldn’t find an authoritative source that stated it was an effective alternative to protein, it seemed to work just fine for me as a strengthening treatment.

The problem? At the beginning of 2011, I started to perform roots only applications of henna to eliminate the problem I had with henna build-up causing excessive curl loosening. I would do a bit of a henna gloss on the length, but that was it. It never occurred to me that the length of my hair was no longer getting its regular dose of strengthening henna resin due to my regimen adjustment. So, I went about my merry way until about October of this year when I realized that the length of my hair was very soft, shedding like crazy and also breaking far more than normal. That’s when the article that I read about a year ago came out of the memory catacombs and I started to think that my hair might be over-moisturized and in need of protein.

Most of us think of breakage as related to the lack of moisture. But, in fact, it can be the complete opposite and diagnosing the source of the problem is necessary in order to select the correct solution.

What can cause over-moisturized hair?

via The Science of Black Hair

  • overzealous “baggying”
  • back-to-back conditioner washes that don’t allow the hair to ever dry
  • regular lengthy/overnight deep conditionings
  • keeping the hair wet in general (water or oil) for extended periods of time without a break
  • the complete elimination of protein products altogether

Well, I’ve definitely been known to sleep in a DC overnight and to leave a Vatika oil pre-poo in my hair for multiple days … more out of laziness than a desire to get “extra conditioning.” Also, given that I leave these treatments in so long, I find that I don’t need to co-wash at all during the week or re-wet my hair to maintain it in a moisturized state. Rather, I usually only need to apply a little cream moisturizer and an oil to seal a couple of times between weekly wash sessions. Anywho, the potential that my hair was over-moisturized/conditioned seemed strong.

So, what do you do if you are experiencing an excessive amount of breakage and aren’t sure of whether you need moisture or protein? Begin with a wet hair assessment and determine how your hair responds in the normal course of combing or finger-handling.

via The Science of Black Hair

  • (When Wet or Dry) Stretches slightly and returns to its original length without breaking, you are balanced! Stick with maintaining!
  • (When Wet or Dry) Stretches a little more than normal then breaks, you need more protein in your regimen.
  • (When Wet or Dry)Stretches, stretches, stretches with no significant breakage yet, add a bit more protein to your regimen.
  • (Wet)- Feels weak, gummy, mushy, or limp, you need to add more protein to your regimen.
  • (Wet or Dry) Experiences very little to no stretching, and simply snaps or breaks, you need to increase the moisture in your regimen.
  • (Dry) Feels rough, tough, hard, dry, tangly, brittle, or any combination of those, you need more moisture in your regimen.
  • Unsure? Err on the side of caution and give your hair more moisture. So now that you have figured out what type of hair breakage you have, what should you do?

If it turns out that your hair is over-moisturized, a protein treatment is in order. Fortunately, over-conditioned hair is pretty easily corrected with a single protein treatment. The strength of the protein treatment should be determined by the amount of breakage. A heavy duty treatment like the ApHogee 2-Step is recommended for severe breakage, whereas a lighter protein, like the ApHogee Keratin 2 Minute Reconstructor, is recommended for more typical breakage. Heavy duty protein treatments should be followed by a moisturizing conditioner to restore elasticity as protein “hardens” the hair by “patching” gaps in the cuticle. Also, it is usually recommended that they not be performed more than once every six to eight weeks.

Now, on the other hand, if you hair has too much protein, a moisturizing regimen will be necessary. A protein overload is not as easily and quickly remedied as over-moisturized hair and may take several weeks to rectify. If this is the source of your breakage, the following steps are recommended by The Science of Black Hair:

  • Clarify to remove any excess product buildup.
  • Deep condition for 30-45 minutes (with heat) once or twice a week with a thick, creamy moisturizing deep conditioner.
  • Apply a water-based moisturizer to your hair daily, concentrating on the ends.
  • Avoid excess protein in common products like leave-in conditioners, moisturizers, gels, and instant conditioners.

As to my hairstory, I saw a vast improvement after my first protein treatment (which was followed with a moisturizing deep treatment … ummm, why didn’t they say so?). My hair felt harder than normal, but I’ve come to realize that that feeling also signifies resilience and strength and the softness that I thought of as a good thing, was actually too much of one! So, you know, I’m learning to find the balance.

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Do you consider the moisture/protein balance in caring for your hair? How do you incorporate it into your regimen?

11/29/2011

Keeping a Natural Hair Journal

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by Tasha Swearingen of NaturallyCurly

A natural hair journal is a log of the condition of your hair and scalp. You can log your entries daily or every other day, depending on your needs and the changes in your hair.

Why Keep a Hair Journal?

Curlies who are transitioning to natural hair often like to keep track of the changes in their hair during the transition. By doing so, they’re able to keep note of the way their hair has changed throughout the transition. In addition, keeping a natural hair journal can show you that you really are making progress in your journey, even when months later, it seems as though you aren’t.

Journals are also useful when you try something, LOVE the results — and then can’t remember what regimen you used a year later. If it’s in your journal, you’ll know exactly what you did and what you thought about it.

How Do I Keep One?

Start with either a basic journal (found in the office supplies section of stores such as Target and Wal-Mart), or something more fancy and pretty. You could also start out with one made with a plain white or foam cover and decorate it if you’re feeling craft.

Alternatively, you could start with a scrapbook album if you’re a scrapbooker. Just glue some photographs to your scrapbook paper, jot down some notes and glue them next to the photo, then slide the paper into the album sleeve. Photos are useful if you feel that you’re having a hard time describing the changes.

You could also keep a video journal or vlog. Just mount your camera on a tripod and record yourself daily or every couple of days, preferably sitting in the same location and with the same amount of lighting on your hair so you don’t mistake changes in lighting for changes in hair texture. A video diary will give you the most descriptive log of your journey.

What Information Should I Include?

You’ll want to include the condition of your hair and scalp in your natural hair journal, as well as any products you use through the process. Keep track of the dates you did things to your hair, as well as any individuals who helped you style your hair. Everything matters, down to the weather outside, so don’t forget to keep track of it all!

Not only is a video diary useful for you years down the road, but it can help other naturals on their hair journey as well! Upload your videos to YouTube and let us know they’re there. We can help you promote, and spread natural hair cheer!


by Noni of Three Naturals

My journey to natural has been an interesting one. I’m sure I’m not alone in that. I found that during this process, along with the kinks in my hair, I grew another layer of skin (a layer of the tougher variety).

Here are some excerpts from the screenplay of my natural hair journey to date:

“I liked your hair better when it was straight”

“This short afro is not my favourite on look on you”

“So when are you gonna get your hair back to normal?”

“The lady asked me if you model and I said no, how could she with her hair shaved off like that”

“Oh, is that how you’re going, with your hair like that?”

“I don’t usually like women with hair this short”

“I think men are just naturally attracted to straight long hair… even if a man grew up only seeing women natural, when he got older he’d want the one with the straight hair”

“here’s your ticket sir…” (ummm, yup, so not funny at the time)

Sound harsh? Sound familiar? Make you think, “dang people can be so ig’nant”?
As I dug up these stashed memories I realized that yes, we all have the capacity to be ignorant and hurtful sometimes. But, ignorance really is a matter of a lack of knowledge. It’s a matter of not seeing or understanding.

If you’ve heard one of the above comments recently or a long time ago and it cut you deep please don’t be like me and hold on to them. See them for what they are and let them roll off your back. It’s like me saying to an astrophysicist “you sure you want to submit that calculation with that poor penmanship?” WTH?!

As you write the screenplay of your natural hair life recognize the difference between informed and ignorant. Appropriately file the ig’nant in the trash and give the “sometimes I secretly watch your hair when you’re not looking and I drool… just a bit” a place on the highlight reel.

By Dr. Phoenyx Austin

I’ve noticed that there’s a considerably broad range of times frames that women will deep condition their hair. For example, I know many women who are fans of deep conditioning treatments that can last from 30 minutes and up to 60 minutes. Then there are some women who like to deep condition their hair overnight.

I’ve heard all the debate and questions about whether deep conditioning is a myth and how long you should deep condition. I don’t concern myself too much with it. Overall, I’m a big advocate of going with what makes me and my hair feel good. Personally, I’ve found that 15 minutes with a small amount of heat is sufficient time for a deep conditioning treatment to work on my hair. That’s just how I do it and I don’t find longer times necessary.

Truth be told, there was even a time when I hated deep conditioning my hair. When I was a little girl, I got my hair deep conditioned on Saturday mornings. I still have flashbacks of those trips to the salon. That Jamaican stylist used to make me sit under that dryer with a deep conditioner for at least 45 minutes. Even then I would complain that 45 minutes was completely unnecessary for my hair. Those 45 minutes were some of the angriest moments of my life. And yes Mom, I’m still a little pissed off about missing episodes of The Smurfs.

How long do you deep condition your hair? Do you notice a difference in your hair when you deep condition for a longer period of time? What was your favorite Saturday morning cartoon?


Dr. Phoenyx Austin is a physician, writer, lifestyle & natural hair blogger, and media personality. If you’d like to send a comment/question to Dr. Phoenyx Austin, you can find her on Facebook and Twitter.

by Tonya McKay of NaturallyCurly

Recently, I had a question come into my box I found very interesting. The person was curious why the shampoo she was using still generated lather, despite the fact that it did not contain sodium lauryl sulfate or sodium laureth sulfate. I immediately thought “Oh! What a wonderful topic for an article this month!” I thought we could discuss the nature of bubbles, lather, and foam, what causes them to occur, and what ingredients are likely to enhance or minimize their formation.

Imagine my surprise when I started doing a little research to refresh my understanding of bubble formation and found this topic to be an area of much intense research, most of which seemed to be far over my head! Many physicists, astronomers and chemists devote their entire lives attempting to develop a fundamental understanding of bubbles, foam, and lather. So, while feeling a little daunted, I decided to carry on and do my own rudimentary analysis of the subject.

What is a bubble?

A bubble is a ball of gas encapsulated by a microscopically thin film of liquid. The formation of a bubble is made possible by the fact that the surface of a liquid behaves much like a skin. This behavior is due to intermolecular forces.

Water molecules possess a high degree of polarity, due to the presence of two small electropositive hydrogen atoms on one end of the molecule and a single, larger electronegative oxygen atom at the other end. These polar molecules tend to be attracted to one another, and arrange themselves so that there is plenty of dipole-dipole interaction, allowing the hydrogen atoms to align with oxygen atoms, and vice versa.

This phenomenon is known as hydrogen bonding, and while it is technically a physical interaction, the strength of these interactions can be quite high. Hydrogen bonding is responsible for many of the unique properties of water such as its high boiling point, relative to its molecular weight, its relatively high density when in liquid form, and the very interesting fact that it is less dense as a solid than as a liquid.


Figure 1. This is a snapshot of a computer simulation of H2O molecules in liquid water. The dashed blue lines represent hydrogen bonding between the molecules as they flow through the liquid. (Image courtesy of Wikipedia)


Within the bulk of the liquid, molecules are in constant motion and are continually encountering one another and then moving into another portion of the liquid. This constant motion means that the dipole-dipole forces exerted on each molecule come from all directions, so the forces are evened out. However, at the air-water interface of a solution, there are not significant levels of intermolecular forces coming from the direction of the air phase. For this reason, the water molecules at the surface experience a much stronger pull in the side-to-side and underneath directions. This has the effect of creating stronger resultant forces (cohesive forces) between water molecules at the surface, which creates a phenomenon known as surface tension. Surface tension is what creates skin-like behavior at the surface of the water.

So what does all this have to do with bubbles? This surface tension is what makes the formation of bubbles possible. When air (or another gas) is forced into water (via agitation, blowing, rapid flow from a faucet, or injection via any other means) and bubbles form, surface tension in the thin layer of liquid that forms the skin of the bubbles draws the bubble tightly into the shape, which has the least surface area to the highest volume (which is a sphere), and this is called a minimal surface structure.

Pure water will form bubbles, which I am sure you have noticed when filling a glass of water from the faucet. However, you have probably also noticed that these bubbles don’t stick around for long. This is actually a result of the extremely high surface tension of water, due to all those hydrogen bonding forces. The addition of soap or surfactant molecules to an aqueous solution acts to bring down the surface tension of the water (a phenomenon discussed briefly in other articles I have written for this site). By lowering the energy at the air-water contact point, soap molecules act to stabilize this interface. That is why the presence of soap or surfactant molecules in water will act to stabilize bubbles that form.

Soap, Lather and Foam

When there is sufficient soap present to stabilize bubbles, multiple bubbles can begin to meet and come together to form a complex structure called foam.

When three or more bubbles join together, the walls always meet at angles of exactly 120°. Nature can be amazingly precise! Eventually this becomes a complex structure comprised of hexagonal cells, which looks a lot like a beehive. (This type of hexagonal structure is one of very low energy, a state highly favored in nature). This conglomerate of bubbles is called foam, which is really all that lather is.

Certain surfactants, due to the simplicity of their structure, very readily form and stabilize bubbles and foams. For this reason, in the formulating world, they are often referred to as foaming agents. They typically produce lots of lather when they are present in a shampoo or skin cleaner and are frequently included in products in order to boost this effect, as it is considered to be desirable by many consumers.

Sodium lauryl sulfate and sodium lauryl ether sulfate (SLS and SLES) are both well-known for producing lots of lather when used in shampoos. These two ingredients are also classified as harsh cleansers, especially for those of us prone to damage done by the effects of stripping oils away from the hair. For this reason, it has become a commonly held belief that foam and lather necessarily correlate with potentially damaging effects.

However, many of the gentler cleansers, such as cocamidopropyl betaine are also used as foam boosters, and will create lather when a product containing them is used to cleanse the hair. While it is true that some of the extremely mild, larger molecule cleansers will only foam minimally or not at all (a fact that is disconcerting to many consumers), most surfactants will cause lather formation to some extent. Other ingredients in the shampoo, as well the hardness of water being used will affect foam formation also (most often adversely).

It is important when evaluating a shampoo to remember that some foaming and lather formation are actually not indicative of a cleanser being harsh. It is best to avoid products that contain SLS and SLES if your hair is dry and delicate. However, if you choose a shampoo that has an apparently gentle ingredients list, but you still get some lather, fear not! Conversely, if you enjoy a little lather when washing your hair but your gentle shampoo doesn’t do this for you, don’t worry that your hair won’t be clean. Foaming and lather formation are not the main phenomenon by which one should gauge the effectiveness or gentleness of their product.

Sidney Perkowitz, professor of physics at Emory University and the author of “Universal Foam,” describes foams as examples of soft matter: They don’t flow freely like a true liquid, but neither are they a crystalline solid like a diamond. “We’re very good at explaining hard matter like crystals; the entire semiconductor industry is based on them,” he says. “Soft matter seems to tell us a lot more about nature and biology.”



Hair Liberty's Nicole Harmon, our Resident Curl Chemist, is answering your most urgent hair questions. Got one for her? Email me at nikki@curlynikki.com using "Hair Liberty" in the subject line and she may answer your question right here on the blog.

Q: I want to try shampoo bars, but I’ve seen mixed reviews. Will they work for my hair?

A: To answer this question, we need to examine the labels of two popular shampoo bars:

Oyin Handmade Grand Poo Bar

Ingredients- purified water, glycerin, sodium stearate and sodium oleate, sorbitol, stearic acid, lauric acid, African black soap, cocoa butter, cetyl alcohol, coconut oil, lavender, tea tree and citrus essential oils

Karen's Body Beautiful Bodacious Beauty Bar (Shampoo Bar), Juicy
Ingredients- purified water, saponified olive, coconut and safflower oils, jojoba oil, shikakai & amla herbs, apple cider vinegar and panthenol

These shampoo bars are made with slightly different recipes, but they are both made of soap. Soap is made by mixing water, fat from a vegetable oil or butter, and sodium hydroxide (lye).
For all intents and purposes, the “sodium stearate and sodium oleate” in the Oyin Poo Bar are the same as the “saponified olive, coconut and safflower oils” in the KBB Shampoo Bar. Oyin used the scientific names for soap in their ingredients list, while Karen’s Body Beautiful used more laymen terms. In the “sodium oleate” listed in the Grand Poo bar, the “sodium” comes from sodium hydroxide and the “oleate” means the fat used was from olive oil.
Soap has been made using sodium hydroxide or potassium hydroxide for centuries, but it’s always had two major problems:

1) It’s impossible to make pH balanced soap. As we know, sodium hydroxide has a high pH and the resulting soap usually has a pH around 10. An expert soap maker can make a soap bar as low as pH 8. Attempting to lower the pH below 8 will make the soap resemble mud (not a solid bar anymore). Some hair types aren’t affected by high pH, but curly-kinky hair is pH sensitive because of its naturally raised cuticles. It’s always best to use shampoo with a pH between 4.5 and 6.5.

2) Soap causes soap scum in hard water. If you use a shampoo bar in tap water that contains a lot of calcium, the calcium will attach to the saponified olive oil/sodium oleate and form scum that settles on your hair (and leaves stains in the tub). Those mineral deposits will make your hair more prone to tangles and knots. Hard tap water is common in Southern California, the Mid West, and Texas. If you have hard water, your hair and skin will feel and look better if you avoid soap.

*The Karen’s Body Beautiful Beauty Bar contains Apple Cider Vinegar, but it’s not in a high enough amount to counteract hard water.

There’s a learning curve to going natural and it takes time to learn what works best for your hair. If you are just starting out on your healthy hair journey, I recommend avoiding shampoo bars. You will find a good regimen for your hair more quickly if you use products that are scientifically proven to work well for your hair type.

Instead of paying around $10 for a shampoo bar, it would be better to spend the same amount to get a large bottle of Nature’s Gate or Avalon Organics shampoo. Those products are made with gentle cleansers, they’re pH balanced and they include ingredients to counteract hard water. If you’re still curious about shampoo bars after you find your holy grail regimen, feel free to experiment. You’ll get a better sense of whether you like them or not after you’ve had some experience with a well-formulated shampoo.

If you choose to wash your hair with a shampoo bar or any other soap, always rinse the soap scum off of your hair at the end of your shower using 1 cup ACV mixed with 1 cup warm distilled water.

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by Bennii Blast of The Culture Pine

This time last year, I was sat in front of the TV with a fresh pack of yaky, throwing instructions at Mamma Jay when she asked ‘how many tracks do you want in the back?’ I remember the first time like it was yesterday. It was the day of my prom, and I had just arrived back home after spending hours at the nail shop. That was the fateful day that opened my eyes to a new idea of beauty, and slowly but surely – it sucked me in.

It’s hard to believe what a difference four years can make. For one thing, I cannot stand having fake nail extensions or hair extensions anymore. There is something about nail extensions that make my hands feel weird. Then there are the hair extensions. The flame I once carried for them has become a memory. Even now that I have started transitioning, I have contemplated protective styles such as kinky twists, or the braids I had in the first couple of months, but they just don’t appeal to me anymore.

Now I’m not making any sort of generalisation, but I believe that for me personally, I was hiding behind these extensions of beauty to inject some sort of false confidence. If I convinced myself enough that it was the truth, then everything would be fan-tabby-hooby. Wrong! I was kidding myself – ignoring a problem does not make it disappear. I have learned that the hard way, and four years later I have to go right back to the start and deal with something that surfaced a long time ago. Believe me, it’s everything BUT easy.

Yesterday I made a hair faux pas, and I am currently sat here with a towel around my head, after washing away my mistake. As I type this, I realise that the ‘me’ back then would have put it off and wallowed in self-pity. Today however, I have dealt with the problem straight away and feel better for doing so. It may be the smallest thing, but it indicates a lot for me and I see how much transitioning has aided me in conquering my insecurities. It has helped me develop a tougher skin, as we all know that society still has a long way to go when it comes to natural hair, and it has allowed me to get to know myself all over again.

I guess my final thought is this: a life of avoidance will catch up with you in the long run. No matter how many layers of foundation or hours at the hair salon you rely on – the issue will still be there. It may seem hard to deal with now, but it will get ten times harder the longer you brush it off.

Do you wish you had made your journey to natural sooner?

11/27/2011

Holiday Gift Ideas for Natural Divas

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by Jamila of College Curlies

Hey y'all! The holidays are right around the corner, and what better way to pamper your friends and family than with some treats for those delicious curls? Here are some fun gift ideas for natural hair:

Make it!

There are tons of ways to get creative with DIY gifts. Check out some of my favorite fun and easy DIY ideas from natural bloggers:
Derby City Naturals' Brown Sugar Scalp Scrub
Alex's DIY Headband


Support Small Business:


Oyin Handmade and Jessicurl are two of my favorites, but there are tons of folks who put a lot of love and labor into getting you high quality products. (Etsy is a great place to go for one-of-a-kind gifts. Instead of getting that scarf or knit hat from Forever 21, show 'em you really mean it with something a little more unique!)

Silk or Satin Pillowcase:

This may not seem like the most glamorous of gifts, but believe me...their hair will thank your for it. Sleeping on a silk or satin pillowcase not only helps maintain your sexy at night, it improves the condition of your hair over time because the material doesn't dry out or snag on your hair. (And this Spasilk pure silk pillowcase is only $15 on Amazon!)


Accessories!

Rocking natural hair is a fierce and bold choice, so why not celebrate it? Shops like Soapbox Theory, Differently Clothing, Bon Vie Vie, and I Love My Hair have fun and chic tees to rock your natural hair with pride. (Ooh, and check out these fabulous afro pick earrings by Rachel Stewart. Love 'em.)

What ideas do you have? Share and I'll ad 'em to the list!

11/26/2011

CurlyNikki Does Panache in STL w/ Lance Gross

Posted by CURLYNIKKI |

There aren't really words for last night...let's just say livers and shoes were lost.

Here's the story in pictures-


Ciroc... somebody call Puffy!

took her shoes off and someone stole them...



Sweater- Express
Jeggings- PacSun
Shoes- Aldo


prepared by Candice Rigdon for CurlyNikki.com:

As one of the most sought after hair-care specialists in the entertainment industry, she has maintained the beautiful coifs of Alicia Keys, Mary J. Blige, Jennifer Hudson, Rhianna, Beyonce, Kelly Rowland & many more! Now, she’s introducing the next wave of hair nourishment products, using super ingredients that breathe new life into damaged tresses, protects thick, course or chemically treated hair from environmental stress & restores elasticity. And on top of all that, she’s a huge fan of Curly Nikki! She’s Tippi Shorter, & she’s prepared to bring the salon experience to our homes!

CN.Com: Tell us about your own hair journey growing up.
TS: Well, I’ve always used my own hair as an accessory! Back in the day, I wanted to try every trend out there. You know, the era of “Yo MTV Raps”; I wanted styles like Mary J. Blige, Salt N Pepa…I even wanted the Kim Fields “Tootie” ‘do. Mom would take me for a rollerset once a month, BUT I wasn’t allowed to get a haircut. So there was a lot of pinning & tucking going on. Ultimately, my hair was an expression of how I was feeling.

CN.com: You’ve been noted as a “beauty genius” by Elle Magazine for two years! Was it always your goal to help women enhance their beauty
?
TS: I am a HUGE fan of Elle, & I was truly honored by that! In school, I was always the one who made sure everyone was together: the clothes, hair & makeup. I’ve always wanted to help women with how they feel about themselves on the outside. Personally, no matter what’s going on around me, looking good & knowing how I appear to other people makes me feel better.

CN.com: Please dish on what it was like being the first African-American spokesperson for both Pantene & Avon!
TS: AWESOME! 10 people were interviewed back when Pantene was launching their Relaxed & Natural line; I received a call saying that Pantene loved me & that was it. I’d already been a fan of their products since beauty school; it was what I could afford. I STILL go back to it when I’m in a crunch because I know it works. I really love the products. As for Avon, I was invited to come to the Avon store & lost my mind, ha ha! I love their products as well, especially the Lotus Shield – it prevents hair from swelling in high humidity. I work with them during Fashion Week; I am a part of their Global Ambassador Styling Team.



CN.com: Who was your first celebrity client
?
TS: Foxy Brown. I met her at a photo shoot for Essence…but she brought her own stylist to the shoot. I came highly recommended, though and she used me. Eventually she became a client of mine.

CN.com: You stand on a platform supporting health before style. What is your beauty philosophy
?
TS: Healthy scalp, healthy hair = amazing style. I never sacrifice style for health. The health of your hair should always come first.

CN.com: What’s one of the strangest requests you’ve had from a client & how did you respond
?
TS: I had a client who kept getting compared to another client of mine, so she wanted a change. But every picture she showed up with was of the other person that she didn’t want to look like! So, not really strange but contradictory to what she said she did and did not want.

CN.com: You must be ecstatic about your new product line, “Hair By Tippi Shorter.” Please tell us about it
. TS: I am super excited about it! I launched it in August; there’s been a huge explosion of curly hair products on the market, but where are the products for girls who like to wear their hair straight? I texturize my hair twice a year after getting sucked into a Brazillian Blowout. It looked great for about a month, but then started shedding in globs & clogged my drain in the shower every time I washed it! With “HBTS” I wanted to give options for women who wanted to wear their hair either straight or curly. It’s dedicated to SMOOTH hair & keep it smooth for the longest it can be. CN.com: What’s the best way ladies can utilize the product line? TS: There are eight products in the line; the shampoo, leave in & serum are evenly yoked. The curly cream completes the system. There are two leave ins, one for fine hair & one for thick hair. The sleek serum can be used for curly or straight hair. And the pomade to control those edges. I’d say get it all, try it all….but that’s not for everyone’s pocketbook. “Hair By Tippi Shorter” is not a style driven line; it’s health & performance driven. It also helps reduce frizz. It’s all about the needs of your hair.

CN.com: The product line is very affordable, putting it in the reach of general consumers. What do you say about the pricing
?
TS: I wanted to create something that would be competitive with other products on the market with great ingredients & without sacrificing quality. In 2012, I am also introducing an enhanced product line. I can’t give too much away, but it will be a different price point & would be available at Ulta & Sephora.



CN.com: What are some of the favorite “HBTS” products of both relaxed & curly heads
?
TS: The Glaze Leave In – it preps tresses for straight or curly styles without being heavy. The Serum, Pomade & Flex Styling Cream are favorites for curlies.

CN.com: What’s one of the worst things a woman can do to her tresses?
TS: Abusing heat appliances. Applying deep treatments and restorative treatments will help restore the hair back to health.

CN.com: What’s one of your best kept hair secrets?
TS: If I told….it wouldn’t be a secret, ha ha!

CN.com: You’re wildly successful in an industry where success does not come easy. What advice can you offer to readers following their own dreams?
TS: Find a mentor. Then actively be around them; l I truly do believe that great minds think alike. You can learn a lot from being around people with great minds.

CN.com: What’s next for Tippi Shorter
?
TS: Rolling out the next phase of hair styling products and tools. And being the best wife & mom I can be!

CN.com: Where can our readers find you on the web
?
TS: I’m starting a healthy hair revolution! You can follow me on Facebook & Twitter (Tippi Shorter); I do lots of giveaways & contests….follow me!

11/25/2011

Black Friday Shopping Tips

Posted by CURLYNIKKI |

by Tammy Goodson of Curlychics

Hitting the stores for those holiday blow out sales can be overwhelming to say the least. However, sometimes a deal is simply too awesome to pass up and you have to put your big girl panties on and brave the crowds. Here are a few strategic tips to get you through without catching a migraine!

• Wear comfortable foot wear
Forget what you seen on the latest episode of Basketball Wives where they hit the stores in 5 inch heels. I know it looks fly on television and its very “fashionista”, however, the goal is to conquer as many sales as possible with minimal distress. The bigger your heel, the shorter your shopping experience will be. You can be comfortable without sacrificing style with a pair of Uggs or a low heeled leather boot that are easy to take on and off. Remember you will be standing in long lines and covering lots of ground. Trust me, your toes will thank you later.

• Wear an across the shoulder bag
A small, hands-free bag just big enough for your wallet, cell phone and Carmex is sufficient (and shopping list if you have one). I love a big bag just like the next chica, however, you will already have enough packages to carry without having to worry about toting around your favorite Michael Korrs bag.

• Minimize the accessories
No fuss, no muss. You do not want to risk your bangles snagging on clothing while browsing or necklaces getting caught while trying items on. The only accessories you will need are a stylish scarf, gloves and a pair of chic sunglasses.

• Wear comfortable clothing
The key to a successful shopping endeavor is preparation. Wearing layers will ensure that you are temperature ready without the bulk of a huge winter coat. A multi layered outfit such as leggings or skinny jeans with a fitted t-shirt, accompanied by a long sleeved shirt and warm jacket is perfect. Your comfortable ensemble should be easy to take on and off in case you need to try something on.

• Hair out of the way
The last thing you want to worry about when dealing with those door buster sales is your hair. An effortless yet chic bun is a great way to accomplish this. For shorter lengths, wearing your hair off of your face will prove to be less bothersome, thus keeping the attention on the task at hand. Steer clear of beanies and tams because they will make things difficult when slipping clothing over your head.

• Exercise patience
Recognize the fact that this is the biggest shopping day of the holiday season which means you should expect long lines and massive crowds. This should help you keep an even temperament and lessen the intensity.

Sharing hairstories and life experiences from a curl’s perspective. Find Tammy at her blog, Curlychics, on Twitter, and Facebook.

11/25/2011

Show and Tell- Fierce Friday!

Posted by CURLYNIKKI |

Hola chicas!

It's that time again! The images below are of CN readers at their flyyest...at work, on the town, and with the fam. Showing us all that natural hair is not a fad, it's a way of life...an extension of our beauty! Click on the images to enlarge them--


Rachel
About to head to out for dinner rocking my first attempt of a Janelle Monae french roll pump with an old twist out...lasted 4 days straight!
YuShondra
Heading to The WATCH THE THRONE tour with the hubby in Atlanta. The style is a simple, sexy twist out done by two-strand flat twisting it all over and heavy twist in the front.
T_Schultz
Doing any and everything but work...two strand twist/bantu knot/mohawk
Chris
This is me at home enjoying a 3rd day WNG stretched and fluffed into a big curly 'fro.
Lorenda
I was headed to my school's halloween party at an attempt to be the female version of Michael Jackson lol. This was a twist out but with much sweating, it became a sweatout lol.

SDavis
Getting ready for work wearing a twistout inspired by Naptural85.
KinkyKK - www.twitter.com/itsagoonthefro
On my way to a Halloween dinner party, inspired by Debbie Allen's "Fame" years. Typical WnG using Curls' curl defining serum and Miss Jessies' curly pudding.
Tiffani
This is from Halloween of this year. I work at a grocery store and costumes are a no go. I wore make up instead.
Patricia
My first time stretching my hair by blowing drying the roots after my wash n go dried. I love it!!
Sharonda
I was retwisting my hair for the evening and I thought it looked really cute. So this was my Friday evening/Saturday hair :)


**If you don't see yourself today, rest assured that you'll be up in the coming weeks! I post in the order I receive them!**

**To submit**:
Send in your favorite picture with a caption detailing where you were (or where you were headed to), along with a brief description of your hairstyle, to nikki@curlynikki.com. I'll post several each Friday. Be sure to use 'Fierce Friday' as the subject line!
We always need more!

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