Many of you may be just too darn excited to read the intro -
and that's fine skip on down to the good stuff! Cause lemme tell you child,
when I found out I was gonna be interviewing my (imaginary in my mind) best
curlfriend I was more excited than Lil' Wayne at a skinny jeans and skateboards
convention! I'm talking Sophia
Grace at a Nicki Minaj concert kind of excited! I'm telling y'all, today -Tracee, tomorrow, Michelle? *dives behind rose garden bushes*
On her hair as a
My hair has always been a huge part of me. I swear you can
chronicle the evolution of my spirit and my embracing and celebrating all of
who I am through my hair journey.
In all honestly, I’ve completely resorted back to all of my
childhood hairstyles! The way I wear my hair at home, the way I braid my hair,
and the way I comb out my natural curls to get that huge wind swept, salt water
look… it’s all very reminiscent of my childhood photos and the history of my
that's a young Tracee on the left!
I have not always been natural.
I had a relaxer in my hair during my teen years…well it was more
of a texturizer than a relaxer.
But I started as a natural girl. I used to go to Joseph’s every Saturday to get a roller set,
a wet set. I’d sit under the dryer
for an hour while I waited for ‘lil Joe-Joe to do my blow-out. He was like,
‘THE guy’, so everybody waited for hours and hours to see him and that was the
majority of your Saturday.
So I did that for many years and if I couldn’t go for my
hair appointment, my mom would blow my hair out or put the hot comb on the
stove, which was a part of her childhood.
My hair never required a ton of heat and my texture was actually really
consistent but the pivotal point came when I moved to Europe to go to school. Enter the Relaxer.
The teenage years…
I remember calling my mom from there and saying ‘Mom, I know that hair, in it’s essence is
already dead, but my hair is dead in a way that I don’t know how to explain.’ I was all the way in Europe and I was
in school and it was just me doing my hair. I would kind of blow out the front of my hair, my sort of ‘quote, unquote’ bangs and kind of poof them forward with a headband and take the rest
of my hair and put it in a little bun really low down at my neck. And so I had this poof in the front and
whatever in the back and whenever I’d come home from Switzerland I’d get my
hair relaxed. So when I left
Switzerland and started going to school in the States, which was 10th
grade, the evolution of my Natural Hair began.
So I didn’t cut my hair off, I basically grew my relaxer out
and then the journey began. It was
sort of like this crazy experimental process of trying a million different
products and actually, I’m still the kind of girl that will try any and
everything! The hard part was when
I started working, I mean modeling was one thing, but then when I started
acting…that’s when it got difficult.
... the beginning of Tracee's natural hair exploration!
For the first three seasons of Girlfriends, if I had an early call-time, I would wake up 3 hours
before so my hair could dry naturally.
Three hours before! I
didn’t use any form of heat on my hair at the time… no blowdryer, no diffuser, I
wouldn’t let anybody do anything to it. I had finally gotten my hair back to
its virgin condition… my huge natural curls were back and I wasn’t letting any
heat or chemicals near my head! So
yes, there would be these conversations with the assistant directors where I’d
plead for a 9 am call time, but if I got a 6am call time - and I’m not joking -
there were times when I’d wake up at 3 am. And it’s not like you can wake up, wash your hair and go
back to sleep.
Then something else occurred, an exploration of sorts. Around year three, Tracee’s hair became
Joan’s hair… it was interchangeable. So when I was off camera, when we weren’t
shooting, I started to get bored with my look. The things that were so me,
weren’t anymore- - the ‘Tracee bun’, my natural hair, became the ‘Joan bun’ and
Joan’s natural hair. I was like, okay, I need something different, I need to be
able to break away and turn back into Tracee when the season finishes.
So, I went to get my hair blown out and the person that
usually did my hair wasn’t in town and the woman that she referred me to used
a stove and an iron… it was still a flat iron, but it was too much heat for my hair and
although I spent the entire summer with gorgeous, shiny, blunt, crazy great
hair, three months later, my hair would not curl. So I ruined my curl pattern
and I freaked out! But that created a whole new exploration.
There was a man by the name of Scott Williams that came in
to work on the set of Girlfriends, I
think it was Season 4. After that
season, I took great pictures of the straight hair that will never happen again
(because the curls would never come back), and we started to discover the Chi
curling iron, not the Chi-3 but the Chi. I don't think they make it anymore, they keep
trying to reconfigure it and it’s not the same, but it’s okay because I’ve
discovered other things now. But anyway, the Chi iron saved my life! It was
ceramic and it would get hot enough that it would leave me with straight, silky
hair, but it wasn’t so hot that it would change my curl pattern. So we nursed my hair back to health
using a silicone-y something on my hair and the Chi and that’s when I discovered
all these other hairstyles that I could achieve. And we found that balance
between my natural hair volume and more ‘movie stary’ looks- that’s what we
used to call it when I started naming all of the hairstyles!
It took about a year to nurse my hair back to health and
now, I can do both. I can do my completely natural wash and go, not manipulated
at all and I have all the straighter variations that I can achieve with
irons. I can do a regular round
brush blow-out, where I have great volume and ease of movement. It’s silky and straight but not…you
know…Naomi Campbell straight. I
can also do my ‘manipulated natural’ now that I’ve learned to diffuse my hair
in a way that works, especially if I have to wake up for an early call. And let me tell you Nikki, I’m not
going to give you all my secrets…I’m saving those for my website and my book!
On her routine…
I am constantly discovering new products. As a naturally curly
girl, you know that our hair, our cuticle gets used to products rather quickly…
some more quickly than others and the truth is that when I find a really good
one, I save it for the days when I know I’m shooting or on camera, so that I’m
somewhat guaranteed a good hair day.
I will also tell you that depending upon which state that
I’m in, different products work better because of the water quality. So products that work in New York don’t
work so great in Los Angeles. And
the water in Atlanta is insane!
When I was working there, my hair was like, what the heck is this Atlanta water? My hair was totally confused, I think it was the water quality combined
with the humidity. I had to get
from my apartment to the stage quickly, and then not go back outside… it was
this whole thing. Anyways...
The truth is that my natural hair out in full Tracee form,
because of how much I work and am on camera, I rarely do for my personal life.
My personal life is usually a bun, braids, or a blowout because it lasts for
more days. I wash my hair with shampoo only once a week, but I will often wet
my hair more times than that. If I’m getting a blowout, I always get a fresh
wash. I prefer hair that is not coated
and weighed down, I get better curls the less product I have in my hair and I
get a better blow out the less product I have in my hair. I wash my hair with the shampoo once a
week and then while in the shower, with enormous amounts of conditioner, I
separate my hair into six sections and the rest of the hair that I’m not
working on, I clip out of the way with a large clip. I then use the Denman D4
rubber brush… love this brush, I have for years, it is the best curl making
brush that exists. After I do two sections, I add a little more conditioner to
it in order to create curls, and then when my entire head is done, I add a
little bit more water and little bit more conditioner and then I turn my head
over and I scrunch to create more curl definition and then I turn my hair back
over and rinse with low water pressure so as not to break up the curls that are
on the top of my head that have just found each other. Finally, I turn the water to complete
cold, no hot water. In the winter it sounds like this (hugh hugh hugh!…panting
noises, sounds of icy pain) in my shower and then in the summer it sounds like
this (ahhhhhh! Cool relief!) But
it is complete cold, not like cool…its actually cold. It’s like the cold water rinse you get
when you go to the spa.
Yes it’s painful, but here’s the thing that changed my
relationship to the pain. That cold water rinse, it’s actually really good for
cellulite! [laughter]. Have you
ever been to the Korean spas and seen the open fist pounding they do? Well, I will sometimes do that in the shower,
under the cold water, across my rear and my legs.
I go hard in the paint for this hair and this body!
So the other thing is that while in the shower, I apply my
products to soaking wet hair. Right now I’m loving Optimum Salon Haircare 6-in-1 Miracle Oil! I use it a couple of
different ways. Unlike most oils, the consistency is more like water…it doesn’t
come out slowly when you pour it out of the bottle, so I have actually
transferred the oil to my own bottle and I have a couple of different ways that
I apply it to my hair. If I’m traveling and it’s just in the bottle that it
comes in, I try to put it in my hands in little bits and I kind of do sections
and then I take my hair and I squish my hair with all the water in so that it
gets evenly distributed throughout my hair. But the other thing that is really
helpful is that I put it in a little diffuser, like a pump bottle, and it’s
actually thin enough in it’s consistency that it comes out like that and it
also gets evenly distributed through my hair. In the summer that’s all I need
to achieve a beautiful wash and go.
Then, if I’m putting it in a bun, I’ll use the Optimum Salon Haircare Miracle Oil Hair Moisturizerwhich
makes my hair shiny but doesn’t weigh it down. It’s really rare to find an oil that doesn’t leave your hair
greasy…but still leaves it shiny. It’s
also rare to find an oil that doesn’t weigh you hair down, but kind of smoothes
the cuticle. There are some oils that either weigh your hair down completely or
make your hair look really greasy or worse, you will actually feel it on your
skin. This oil penetrates my hair when it’s wet and by the time it dries, the
curls have had time to find each other and they kind of coagulate and the
product has completely sunken in! I’ve also been known to use this oil around
my cuticles and after mixing in some essential oils, apply it to my wet skin to
give it that glow.
On tips for women who
want to go natural…
With me, anything that I’ve done that I’ve found to be worth
it in life, has taken a little time.
It’s taken time to discover it for myself, time to actually be in a
relationship with myself in the process of whatever that thing is and its been
no different with my hair. It’s been a journey and it will be a journey for you
and what works for me will not necessarily work for you, but it might just give
I have three girlfriends with hair very similar to mine and
some things work for me but not for them, it is what it is…the process. The
suggestions that I’ve given might not be specifically what works for them, but
it helps them discover something else that will work for them. My suggestion to
anybody that wants to wear their hair similar to me… go toward the internal
version of it, instead of the external.
So the thing about my hair is that it is really authentic to me, the way
I wear it for certain days and events is really what feels right to me, and my
suggestion and encouragement to everyone is to do what feels right to
them. For example, if you are
going to a class reunion or your prom, it’s probably not the day to try a new product
or a new hairstyle. If prom is two
months away, start experimenting on Sundays or a day that you know you’re going
to be at home. These are the days
that you try a new product or a new way of combing your hair out. Then try it a couple of times, because
the thing that I’ve discovered with curls is that they take a minute to find
each other. If for example you’re growing out your relaxer or your perm, it
takes a minute and if you don’t have the courage or desire or the willingness- because
it’s not just about courage, sometimes you can’t, you know some people can’t
just chop their hair off- then give it some time! Find a great way to braid your
hair. I’m the one who knows how to
braid my hair, I mean know one else knows how to braid my hair.
It’s not always good in Tracee land. I’ve had some really bad moments, I was
going to a dinner party for a friend’s birthday, and I don’t know what it was,
but like my back section looked really good, but the top became this weird puff
of horridness and I figured out this way to kind of twist the front of my hair
and create a poof. It looked good with the naked eye in the mirror. I caught a
glimpse of a photograph however and I was like what the heck was I doing?! And
thank God I wasn’t on a red carpet. So you kind of have to experiment and don’t
be afraid to take a photograph… I always say this about clothing too. Looking
in the mirror, you see your feelings and if you feel good in something it will
most likely look good to you, but just because it feels good doesn’t necessarily
mean it looks good, especially if you’re going to be on a red carpet. If you
look at a photograph of yourself you have a little bit more objectivity. I used to do it with Polaroid’s, but
now I do it with my camera phone and I’ll put the phone on a little kick
stand. When I look crazy I say, ‘I’m glad you enjoyed your little moment
putting that on or did your hair like that, but you will not be able to leave
the house in that manner’. [Laughter]
I’m excited about my new
website! It should be up and running soon! I love your site Nikki, I actually
check it quite often, so much that it seems as if we’ve already met. I’m happy
we were finally able to connect!