Curly Nikki | Natural Hair Styles and Curly Hair Care

The gorgeous R&B singer/songwriter, Leela James, is a true diva. She has a new album, My Soul, that was released in May 2010. Her sultry ballads and soulful lyrics have brought her much deserved acclaim around the world, but it's her hair that won her iconic status in the curly world! Leela is one of the most down to earth celebs I've interviewed to date-- she definitely keeps it real!

On her hair story...
I've never had a relaxer. I've pretty much worn my hair braided, pressed & curled, or in natural 'out' styles my entire life. If you were to bump into me on a regular day, I'd probably be in cornrows, box braids, plaits... you know, Poetic Justice-esque.

On her current routine...
I wash, condition, deep condition and style every couple of weeks. I'm not married to any particular line or brand of products- - I just use whatever is on hand. When I go to the salon, they use their products, and when I'm at home, I use whatever is in arm's reach.

I usually wash and condition in the shower, but I've been known to flip my hair over into the kitchen sink too... old school style, LOL! It all depends on my mood.

I deep condition and apply hot oil treatments regularly. I recommend everyone do this, at least once a month.

On achieving her HUGE and Fierce 'Fro...
On wash day, I apply a leave-in conditioner and create 5 or 6 braids or plaits. I braid on damp hair and allow it to air-dry. Once it's fully dry, I take the braids down, comb them, and then tease it out using a pick or a wide tooth comb. Sometimes I'll lightly blow it out with a dryer, but that's really it! In between styling sessions, I dampen the hair, re-braid and repeat.

On achieving her chunkier, more defined styles...
It's almost the same routine. The major difference is that I braid my wet hair (instead of damp), and take them down before they have time to fully dry and set. This creates a tighter curl pattern, but as you tease it out, it loosens up a bit.

When I'm on the road, it's pretty much the same thing. I plait it up, or do nothing and go. I don't really have a true routine. I'm really not fussy with this stuff and I'm very lazy when it comes to my hair.



On straight styles...
My mother presses my hair and she uses old school pomades and/or a light grease. Very simple. It's fun to switch it up from time to time.

On protecting her hair at night...
Most nights I dampen it a bit with water, apply a little leave-in conditioner and re-braid. I sleep in a silk or satin scarf as well. Other nights, I don't do anything!

On adding pieces for length and volume...
I do, occasionally. But a girl can't disclose all of her secrets! Some things need to be left to curiosity. Plus, it ain't none of y'alls business, LOL!

On being natural...
It's easy and you don't really have to worry about hardcore maintenance, like hot curling it every day, or trying to keep it straight.

On helping others embrace their natural hair...
I think it should be 'to each his own'. I really do. Whatever you feel most comfortable doing...do just that. There is no right or wrong way to wear YOUR hair, or do you. If you want to wear your hair weaved up, if you want to wear your hair natural, if you want to cut it off or shave it bald...whatever! Do whatever you want to do, because there are no rules, it's your head. Your hair is not who you are, it's just a part of you. It should be looked at like an accessory, and I feel that sometimes, people make too much out of it. It's just not that deep to me.

I do what I feel comfortable doing and that just happens to be 'natural hair'. For some reason, my hair has become this thing that everybody thinks of as my signature trademark. But no! I'm just lazy, and this works for me. And at the end of the day, if I feel like switching it up and doing something totally different, if I want to wear my hair straight, that's what I'm going to do! It just depends on how I'm feeling, and what I'm able to handle at the time.

On her inspiration for 'My Soul'...
My inspiration is pretty much myself and my personal experiences leading up to the release of this album from the first album. I was involved in 'My Soul' from the beginning to the end, and the journey in transitioning from one label to another, and switching management, really played a factor in how I wanted to go about the whole recording process... the whole album.
Last time I went through a lot, and this go round, it was all me. These are my songs, my thoughts, my lyrics... all of the above! It's coming from my soul.... nobody else's but mine.

The album is in stores, but you can also get it online (Itunes). Hit me up on Facebook and follow me on Twitter! I'm on the road getting ready to do some tour dates over seas as well as some here in the States. So come check me out... and FOCUS ON MY MUSIC, NOT MY HAIR, how 'bout that?!

On her natural hair story...

I've been natural my entire life! My mother didn't believe in relaxers, and vowed never to put lye on her child's scalp. Lye is very toxic and your scalp is among the thinnest skin that you have on your body. The harm this stuff can do should not be taken lightly. I've never had a relaxer, and I never will.

On embracing her natural texture...

I've pretty much always loved my hair but there were a few years where I really didn't know how to take care of it. My hair is not as thick as it used to be... when I was younger it was SO, so thick! I didn't know what to do with it and found it to be very frustrating. Around age 13 or 14, I began to learn new techniques which expanded my styling options, and that's about the time that I truly began to embrace it.



On her experiences in the entertainment industry...

Wow... I never really think about it. I mean, it certainly makes me 'identifiable' when I show up with my Afro, but, to me, that's the most obvious way to wear my hair. That's how it grows out of my scalp. Having big natural hair makes me stand out to people at first take. I think of myself as an artist, as a musician, and I'm happy that my hair is just one more way that I can express myself.

On her current routine and achieving her signature Afro...

I usually wash my hair once a week-- a really thorough wash using a shampoo bar full of oils and natural cleansing agents. I then apply a mix of Shea Butter, Cocoa Butter, Olive Oil and Tea Tree Oil to my wet hair, brush it through using a typical Goody Brush (the white one with the red plastic bed and teeth), set my hair in 8 twists and allow it to air dry. The twists not only help to set my hair, but they also keep it from tangling as it dries. In between washing sessions, I'll re-apply my butter mix and twist my hair. I find that I don't really need conditioner. My hair fairs well with little product. My routine is very simple, very natural.

On routine changes while touring...

I keep the same routine when I can. I do find that I have to moisturize it a lot more often because the air gets so dry. I usually do my hair myself-- whenever I've let others try, they usually mess it up, LOL. People just don't know what to do with it! The few times that I've gone to a hair dresser to get it cut, I'd let them brush through it, and blow it out in order to get it even, but I'd lose so much hair! Not cool, and I'm pretty sure I'm not going that route again.
Luckily my hair regimen is simple-- it's not much to it, it's just an Afro, so it's easy for me to maintain on my own while on tour. My hair is the least of my concerns while I'm out here trying to lead my band and put on a show every night.

On protecting her hair at night...

I usually just re-twist it to keep it from matting up or tangling while I'm asleep. In the morning, I release the twists, and fluff it out. I moisturize with the butter mix as needed.

On being natural...

Embracing and freely wearing my natural hair is like a form of self- exploration. I'm not White, I'm not European, and my hair is not straight. So I don't have any desire to make it straight-- it doesn't speak to who I am as a person. I am very mixed and I like that my hair is a reflection of that. My hair is an extension of me, and that's how it should be.


On getting others to embrace their natural hair...

Don't get discouraged when at first your hair doesn't do what you want it to do. That's part of the beauty of it! You have to learn to work with whatever you have. Some people get frustrated when it doesn't 'respond'. Just give it time, be patient, and enjoy it! I love seeing people do their thing and embrace what ever type of hair they have. I also find it inspiring to see naturals that rock crazy, creative and artistic styles.

On her upcoming projects and ventures...

Please check out Chamber Music Society, my new album set to be released August 17th in the U.S. It's inspired by the classical training of my younger years-- it weaves the innovative elements of jazz, folk and world music into the enduring foundations of classical chamber music traditions. Pick it up!

To the CurlyNikki.com Community:

Rock it proud! Be proud of the unique combination of genetics, cultures, and people that allow your hair to be the unique entity that it is. Let it be!

Actress Giovonnie Samuels, best known for her role in Bring It On: All or Nothing, is natural and rocking it beautifully! For those of you from my generation, you may also recognize her from Nickelodeon's All That (I used to love that show!). She also had reoccurring roles in Disney Channel's That's So Raven, and The Suite Life of Zack and Cody.

Recently I was able to sit down with her On the Couch to discuss her lock journey, fav products, and thoughts on natural hair in the entertainment industry.

CN: Tell us your Hair Story!
Gio: I first got my locks when I was around 8 years old! I had really long hair as a child, and my mother and I would fight when she would try to do it, you know what I mean- - press, braids, whatever. I can't remember who applied my first perm, but that petty much killed my hair! Almost a year later, I saw this lady with the most beautiful locks I'd ever seen- - Dr. Joanna Cornwell, she was wearing Sister Locks. I went home right away and begged my mother to do my hair like that-- haven't looked back since!


CN: Have you always liked your natural hair? If not, how did you come to embrace it?
Gio: ALWAYS!! I grew up around women that had natural hair- - my grandma, aunties, and my mom. My mother was always trying new things with her hair, from long and red to short and honey blond. In fact, my mother was doing the short bold cut way before any of the stars today! She has always been ahead of her time. I saw how happy and beautiful they felt, like nothing was wrong with having YOUR hair. It wasn't until I got into the entertainment industry that people had problems with my natural hair. That's why I cut my locks this past January- - they were down to my butt and now they're in a short bob.


CN: What is your current routine?
Gio: I wash my hair like most people- - once a week in the winter, and twice a week in the summer time. I condition mostly in the summer because I like to sit in the sun so my hair dries faster. I curl my locks when I feel like doing something sassy or if i want to change my look.

CN: How does your routine change when you're on set?
Gio: When I arrive on set, most of the hair people have no idea what to do with me. They just look at me with that... 'uhmm I don't know what to do with that?!' face. I shake my head, laugh and style my own hair most of the time.

CN: What are your must have products?!
Gio: OOOHH! Pantene Pro-v Relaxed & Natural (the one in the brown bottle for black people, lol). I just love the way it smells! For a deep condition, I use the Sister Locks Moisture Treatment and Silk Elements Glossing Polish- - it adds a nice shine to my hair and again, I like the way it smells!


CN: How do you protect your hair at night?
Gio: Not a thing, LOL! Unless I have it curled, then I may put a wrap on it, but most of the time nothing.

CN: What's the best thing about being natural?
Gio: Getting up in the morning and not having to do anything to my hair if I want to! I LOVE THAT! I love the fact that I have a choice to do my hair unlike most of my girl friends. Sometimes I feel bad for them when we go out- - it takes them forever to get ready, and they still worry about their hair when we get to where we're going! I just laugh!



CN: What would you tell a woman who has yet to embrace her natural hair?
Gio: You know, it's hard for me to sell someone else on natural hair for so many reasons. For one, until that woman feels like she is more than just her hair, then I can't talk to her. Until women stop feeling like the only way to achieve beauty is to install a weave... I can't do anything. I blame society! Everyone is stuck on only one view of beauty. I gets NO love from the brothas on the West Coast. If I want to get a date, I have to go to the East Coast (guys on the west coast won't say two words, let alone look my way because of my locks). Now if I was in New York or down in ATL, I couldn't get down the block good before someone is asking for my number (I'm not saying this because I'm on TV, I'm saying this from my personal experiences, and my other girlfriend with natural hair experiences this as well). It's just sad that most people only have one way of seeing someone as beautiful. Think about it, when was the last time you saw anyone on any magazine with natural hair other then for natural hair? I hope that one day I can change that.

CN: What would you tell a woman considering locking?
Gio: GO FOR IT!! You can do so much more with your life- - swim, run, jump, play, LOL! Also, getting up in the morning and hair being the LAST thing on you mind...priceless! Your hair grows better, you're not frying your brain with perms, and you can do just as much if not more with your hair in its natural state!

CN: Who is your natural hair inspiration?
Gio: It used to be Lauryn Hill before she cut off all of her hair. Now its just me... I'm my own hair inspiration! I know that I'm a role model for little girls. Sometimes I feel like the only actress with natural hair... sad. I hope that the little girls that see me on TV will see natural hair as beautiful.

CN: Tell us about your upcoming projects and ventures!
Gio: Hopefully I'll be on a new show soon! But for now, I'm just teaching, acting and writing blogs, LOL!

CN: Anything else you'd like to add:
Gio: I love my hair!!! ;-)

Hola Chicas,

Good news! Remember when I shared that I couldn't get the interview until late August? It seemed like a lifetime away (patience is not my virtue), but she's on tour across the pond and her time is incredibly limited. Luckily, she's super sweet and couldn't wait to share her story On the Couch! I caught up with her in Portugal and will hopefully have the interview published by Wednesday. She dishes on her signature 'fro routine, fav products, and more!

Later Gators,
Nik

One of our favorite pastimes is ogling over pictures of gorgeous natural hair... mostly random divas on Fotki and hair blogs, but other times, natural hair celebs. Whether it's for inspiration, motivation, or finding the nerve to transition or chop, we often look to these idols to remind us just how beautiful natural curls can be.

I've been a member of the virtual natural hair community since 2005, and I'm more than aware of who the 'popular' idols are (the celebs you see over and over again in everyone's Fotki). Bre Scullark is definitely among the favs. I'm sure you remember her from America's Next Top Model Cycle 5- - hair was RIDIC! I tuned in that season just to watch those curls... plus she was hilarious and very down to earth. She's since appeared on later Cycles of ANTM, episodes of the Tyra Show, and ripped countless runways. She's been in more commercials and campaigns than I can name. She's becoming a super model in her own right!

Bre has recently Big Chopped to signify a new beginning. Last week, she took a minute from her busy schedule to chat On The Couch! Here's what she had to say:

On her hair story...

I've been natural much of my life. In middle school my mother began relaxing my hair to thin it out because there was so much of it, and therefore deemed 'unmanageable'. The problem was that the relaxer only changed the texture... it did nothing for the thickness. I wore it permed for about a year, and then slowly transitioned, chopping off a little bit at a time. By my sophomore year in high school, I was completely natural again.

On embracing her natural hair...

I didn't always like my curls, mainly because I was the only one in middle school who had this hair texture, and so much of it. I remember my classmates used to make fun of me and call me mop head! All the other girls had straight hair, and I wanted that too because in my mind, that's what pretty was. Pretty meant you had really manageable, silky straight hair- - I wanted that so bad. And even though my hair was long and healthy, no one really acknowledged it because it was very, very curly. I vividly remember my feeble attempts to make it silky and straighter- - I'd apply petroleum jelly (don't laugh!), brush it through, and then braid it up. That obviously never worked out- - I just looked bad.

It wasn't until college that I began to appreciate and enjoy my hair. In high school I abused it-- I would color it a lot , straighten it every single weekend, I cut bangs... you name it, I tried it. Then I went off to college and couldn't do that anymore- - there were no salons around, and I had no choice but to embrace it.

During my first years in college, I wore a bun religiously. I remember one day I took it down, and my next door neighbor in college said, 'You have beautiful hair!' And I responded, 'No, it's too much, it's too thick'. And she said, 'No really, you should wear it out and curly more'. So I did just that, and received a great response. I had never looked at my hair in that way-- as beautiful. It was different for me, and just the beginning. I began wearing it out more and more, big and wild! I also feel that people were becoming more accepting, despite the fact that I was the only natural on campus (that I knew of). Almost everyone had a perm!

On her 'long and curly' ANTM hair...

While I was on Top Model, I'd always have my hair in a bun. I'd wash it maybe once a week, bun it, and every once in a while, when the weather was nice, I'd wear it out curly. I remember Tyra telling me, 'Stop this. You have beautiful hair, please wear it out!'. So that's when I started washing and conditioning it more often (sometimes 3 times a week). Even after the show, whether at home, for shoots, or working with Tyra, I continued with that regimen. I'd wash, condition, grease my scalp, gel, and just go!

On greasing her scalp...

You know all the old school products-- Don't Be Bald, Doo Gro, etc.? They worked out really well for me, LOL! I would take one of those and mix in a little olive oil and grease my scalp. I now use Indian Hemp. Love the stuff!

On growing and maintaining long hair...

I've never had a problem growing my hair, it's usually pretty resilient. Last year was the first time it has ever broken off. Before then, I had colored it many times over, heat styled frequently, stripped it platinum blonde... and it suffered no damage. My hair is tough, very, very strong! But I think from working so much and having to do so many campaigns, it just couldn't handle the stress. Now that I've cut it all off, I have virgin hair again. It's growing back twice as thick as it was before...it's almost frightening!

As far as growing and maintaining long hair, I think it really is about knowing your hair type, knowing what works for your hair, and being consistent in whatever you do. There are models out there with beautiful hair, whatever the texture, it's beautiful, healthy, and strong. Some of them swear by salon products, while others rely on old school eggs and mayo treatments. Figure out what works for your hair, and just be consistent. I've seen women complain about their hair not growing and breaking off in places, and when I ask what their routine is, they don't have one. Find a routine and stick to it!

Also, I know so many women who have beautiful hair that just never seems to grow. I feel that their hair is being traumatized from excessive heat and roll brushes. It's nothing more than a quick fix... it's not maintenance, and can be quite damaging.

On her 'long and curly' staple styles...

I love a bun! It's so funny that I cut my hair off, because buns were truly my staple style. I love to see a woman with her hair pulled away from her face. Gorgeous.

I would usually opt for a middle part, and slick the sides back into a pony tail. I'd then wrap it around itself and pin it into a huge bun. I kept that look. I also did a lot of messy buns, usually worn high on top of my head. I would literally get up in the morning and go.

I also did a lot of wash and gos. I'd shampoo, apply conditioner, rinse (because if I didn't, I'd get white flakes) apply gel, and go. I'd let it air dry throughout the day. My curl pattern is strong and becomes super defined as soon as the water hits it. Wash and gos were very easy for me.

On her current routine...

I don't have to do much of anything... my options are a bit more limited now. It's grown out to a really cute length from when we first cut it, and I love it! After washing and conditioning, I just use a leave-in conditioner, grease my scalp, and go. I don't even use gel anymore. My virgin hair is growing in so nicely, I can't even tell you how thick this Afro is on my head!


On her must have products...

I love, love, love Mixed Chicks! I love anything that is cream based, like Neutrogena's Deep Conditioner (it's cheap and easy to find) and I love olive oil too... I add it to all of my conditioners, and leave it in my hair.

My Favs:

-Mixed Chick's Gloss and Shining Hair Serum (adds sheen to hair without weighing it down. I apply it to wet, dry, or damp hair.)
-Mixed Chick's Leave in Conditioner (I leave this in my hair, in place of gel)
-Mixed Chick's Detangling Deep Conditioner (I leave this in for 15 minutes)
-Neutragena's Triple Moisture Deep Recovery Hair Mask
-Extra Virgin Olive Oil
-Eco Styler Gel (for when I was long and curly)

On being natural...

I find that with natural hair, you have more manageability as far as maintaining the hair. It's a lot healthier, a lot stronger, and honestly, internally you just feel better. In the media, we portray ourselves to only be beautiful if we look a certain way. But the most beautiful thing about our culture is that we have versatility! You can be anything you want to be, and look however you want to look. With that said, being natural just gives some kind of an internal boost-- it's refreshing to have natural hair and just say, 'I'm beautiful the way I am'. And it truly shows...other people pick up on it too.

As afraid as many of us are to go natural, the minute we step out of that box and do it, people are like, 'whoo, you look so much better like this! I love this look on you! It fits your personality... who you are'. I feel like all along we've been trying to be someone else, something we are not. Now that we are coming into ourselves and genuinely accepting ourselves for who we are, everyone else is accepting us too.

On others embracing their curls...

The most beautiful thing about life is stepping out of your comfort zone. Change can be scary. It doesn't always mean better, but it's not always bad either-- change from negative environments, change from negative relationships, change from feeling ugly or inferior. Accepting your natural curls allows you to look at yourself in a better way, a different and more positive way.

On CurlyNikki.com...

Thank you for all the wonderful comments! I was very nervous about what everyone would think of my new look, so the positivity that has poured out is much appreciated. Know that I'm going to be on CurlyNikki.com reading, watching, and cheering you all on. I love you guys!

Remember the beautiful and sassy Bre Scullark from America's Next Top Model Cycle 5? Her gorgeous curls have been the envy of many over the years, and unless you've been living under a rock, you've heard the news... she has Big Chopped!

On why she chopped:

As the ambassador for Drop Dead Gorgeous social justice organization, I speak
with victims of human and child sex trafficking and the one thing I try to
instill in all of our survivors is how to learn to let go. It seems easier to
live with routine of hurt, misery and baggage than to take a chance and release
it. I am no stranger to this type of pain because I like so many women have been
violated. Although I have never been a victim of this particular crime, I am no
different than the women I mentor.

I walked around for years with the guilt and hurt of what happen to me, misery and negativity were so common in my ife that I almost expected the worst out of every situation. Regardless of our circumstances, EVERYONE deserves a fresh start, a change in what we are used to. When I cut my hair, I took a chance at living a new life by releasing the one thing that I loved and was afraid to let go of. When I speak to survivors from DDG I always make reference to how the attachment to my long hair held me captivate for years. I want them to feel encouraged to know that until they let go of their baggage they can’t free of their past. I encourage everyone to step out and take a chance in embracing their unknown. I believe it is a vital step in any women’s developing a sense of pride and confidence they need to feel whole outside of the traditional perceptions of beauty. This is something that every woman at some point in their life should experience.

I must admit, I'm not what one would call a viewer of the PBS Kids Sprout channel. I'm not exactly in their target demographic, but then again, I will be soon! So when I received this email from Tamika R., my ears perked up:

Hi Curly Nikki,

I love your blog, it is so informative. I especially like reading about celebrity curlies...their whole routine and how they maintain their hair.
I was wondering if you could interview Dennisha Pratt of PBS Kids Sprout for a celebrity spotlight? She recently shocked her viewers by coming on air with a short, curly fro! Previously, her hair was long and straight, and needless to say I was so excited when I saw her show today! I was like,"OMG, she's a curly now! Yaa! You go girl". According to Twitter, "Dennisha is wearing her hair naturally curly instead of straightening it". However, she's been receiving some criticism (of course) from viewers on Facebook and on Twitter, etc. who are less knowledgeable about curly hair.
I went on Facebook and explained that, a lot of women stop relaxing their hair, and transition or 'Big Chop' in order to achieve healthier hair. I also explained that she is an example to all the children who watch her show and that they don't have to conform to today's society that states we must have long bone straight hair to be beautiful.
I'm sure, once the word gets out, other curlies will want to know why and also what her regimen is, what products she uses, how long she transitioned, what convinced her to Big Chop, and what are her go-to styles are, etc.

I immediately jumped on it, and managed to get Dennisha on the couch! Check out what she had to say:



CN: What is your hair story?

DP: Well, let me begin by saying, when I made the decision 10 months ago to transition, I had no idea that I would be doing it on national television! Getting relaxers every 6-8 weeks was all that I knew. Growing up, I didn't know of women who were proud of their natural hair. It wasn't until last year, when I was sitting in the hair shop with relaxer in my head that I asked myself, "Why are you doing this? Why are you hiding who you are? What would happen if you didn't do this anymore?" That turned out to be my last relaxer. In the past, during middle school, high school and college days, I would get micro braids and always enjoyed the textured "new growth" that was coming in but would then rush off to get it straightened. I didn't realize that I could keep that textured hair forever. I later decided to go natural for the following reasons: I was curious what my actual hair looked like and felt like, I wanted to be free from relaxers and harsh chemicals, I was searching for my identity, I found it to be empowering that I was able to do different things with my texture, I wanted a change in my appearance and I felt that going natural was a truer representation of my personality. So I decided to transition long term from relaxed to natural hair. I was offered my dream job hosting a national kids television show called The Sunny Side Up Show for Sprout, the first 24-hour preschool television channel. At the time, I was hired with flat ironed hair and very nervously informed the network of my decision to go natural. They were very understanding and completely supported my desire to keep my hair curly for the show. I was overjoyed that I would no longer have to risk heat damage and could announce to the world that I'm on my way to the hair that I was intended to have.

CN: What or who inspired you to go natural? Was it a spontaneous decision or a process?

DP: While living in NYC, a couple of close friends encouraged me to look into going natural. I eagerly began to research natural hair care. I quickly became obsessed with learning as much as possible and began watching YouTube tutorials and reading blogs and books. The more I learned the more excited I became about going natural. It was a spontaneous decision that has become a process!

CN: How have your family and close friends reacted to your decision? Are they supportive?

DP: I have received so much support from friends and relatives. My biggest support has been my husband throughout this emotional journey. There are days when I don't know what to do with my growing hair and he tells me that I'm beautiful and reminds me that I need to be patient because I always figure something out. It hit my mother hard because she was used to me having long relaxed hair for over twenty years and didn't understand. I am happy to say that she is coming around to the idea of me being natural.

CN: What do you think of the pressure you will inevitably experience from the industry to return to a straight style? How do you plan to deal with it?

DP: I feel that the acting industry has become more open to natural hair over the past several years as more women are embracing their texture. Transitioning to natural hair is a decision that I feel strongly about and will fight to stay true to my decision.

CN: What products have you used or would like to try?

DP: I have slowly been cleaning out my hair products by throwing away things that have no benefit to my hair (products with mineral oil, petroleum, etc.). For the first time ever, I'm paying attention to the ingredients label and making choices based off that. It feels good to know what I'm putting on my hair and body. Right now, I like Carol's Daughter products, Organic Roots Stimulator products, Cantu Shea Butter Leave-in Conditioner, and my favorite, Extra Virgin Cold Pressed Coconut Oil. I feel that as my hair continues to grow, some products may change, but this is what works for me right now. I am careful with my purchases as well and won't allow myself to buy new products until I've used all of another product. This can be hard at times but it keeps me from becoming a "product junkie".

CN: What's your current routine/regimen? Do you do your own hair?

DP: Because I've made the decision to transition long term rather than big chop, I go to a local natural hair salon in Philadelphia called Bigwigs to get straw sets for the show. After my on-air week is over, I then use conditioner to help detangle and prepoo. Straw sets can make my ends dry so I co-wash and use Organic Roots Stimulator Olive Oil Replenishing Deep Conditioner and pay close attention to my ends. Once I've completed this, I follow up with the Cantu Shea Butter Leave-In Conditioner and either set my hair on perm rods and head for my hooded dryer, or wet bun my hair, or do flat twists. I'm excited about continuing to learn how to style my own hair.

CN: Who are your natural inspirations?

DP: I have many natural inspirations that range from my friends who are natural or transitioning, to the ladies of YouTube who are brave enough to share their journey and tips with others, ladies of hair care blogs and forums, to Jill Scott, Esperanza Spalding, Corrine Bailey Rae...this list goes on and on.

CN: What would you tell someone toying with the idea of transitioning or Big Chopping?

DP: Take your time in making this decision because it is a BIG one. I made the decision to transition and it takes a tremendous amount of patience and commitment. Sometimes I feel that things would be so much easier if I big chopped, but I chose to take this path. I usually seem to do things the hard way, so why not carry that over to my hair as well?! Seriously, take your time and do your research.

CN: Do you feel that your natural hair will ever help or hinder your chances of getting a specific role? How so?

DP: I don't feel that my natural hair will be a hindrance to me because I'm embracing it and am building confidence. As long as I'm true to myself on all levels, I can never go wrong.

CN: Is there anything else you'd like to add?

DP: I am so thankful to be a part of a movement that shows African American girls and all girls with curly hair that it's ok to embrace your texture and be confident in yourself!

Kwanza Jones captivates listeners by singing melodies and belting rock-laced hooks that riddle with emotion, reality lyrics and heart thumping beats. By resume standards, she has done it all. Releasing two full albums (Naked and Naked 2: Universal Fire), an EP (Victim of the System), and her latest single “Everything Around You” which is the prelude to her newest album, Supercharged! Add a degree from Princeton, charismatic presence, and songwriting/arranging credits, and she will undoubtedly secure a place in the ever-evolving indie musical landscape! Plus... she's a fellow natural!




On her hair story...
Wow... let me tell you, it's a page-turning novel! I've gone from high maintenance (blow drying/curling/flat ironing everyday) to low maintenance (braids/twists) to press and curl to relaxers to wash and go naturally curly, to hair cuts that have had me in tears when I left the salon. In a word my Hair Story is like many... it's a never-ending drama but it's turning into a love story.
What has come with the changes in styles has been a better understanding about what works for me and what doesn't. Most importantly, I've learned hair is personal, VERY personal. It's up to each individual to define, for themselves, what works best. In essence, it takes courage to experiment and to find styles that work with your lifestyle; education to see what is best for your hair health; and, communication, if you're working with a stylist, because just as not all relationships are good for you, not all stylists are either.

On embracing her curls...
I've always liked my curls. I didn't really have a choice. Growing up, my parents wouldn't let me or my sisters get relaxers or any other chemical treatments so we embraced our natural hair. What I didn't like was all the effort that was required to find products to maintain my curls. There is no one-size fits all formula. Sometimes it takes a lot of trial and error to find the best products for your hair type. I went through a period of exclusively wearing my hair "wash and go". In other words, I'd shampoo it, put in some leave in conditioner add a little bit of gel (or a lot depending on the mood my hair was in) and go about my day. Naturally my hair is very curly. Growing up people would say "you have good hair" and they would think it was easy for me to maintain. It would irk me whenever I heard that. All hair requires maintenance regardless of type. It's ridiculous when you think about it. HAIR is HAIR. It's not good or bad. Instead, it's varying degrees of curly, wavy or straight. Buying into the notion that certain hair textures are better than others does nothing but skew your sense of self-worth. Embracing your natural hair is a way to remain connected to yourself.

On her current routine...
Given how active my lifestyle is (with travel, performances and working out daily), I need a hair routine that is very low maintenance. I used to take about 30 minutes to do my hair every morning. Now, It takes me about 3. I wake up, work out (usually with a scarf on my head), shower (with a very large shower cap) add a little Paul Mitchell Super Skinny Serum to smooth and add shine, then I start my day. I make sure I wrap my hair at night, that makes it easier to maintain and I get my hair twisted every 3 - 4 weeks. If I wait longer than that my hair starts to dread. The great thing about twists is that I'm able style my hair in all sorts of different looks from up-dos to pulled back pony tails. Sometimes I'll wear the twist-out look, which I'm able to achieve if I wash my hair and put gel in it.

On her staple hair styles...
For now my staple hair style is my signature two-toned twists. With my hair, I usually go in phases. I'll like one style and wear it for a while then I get tired of it and am ready for a change. My hair is pretty long so I rarely add hair for length but at times I'll add hair for color. It keeps things fun and fresh and it's less damaging on my hair. I'm thinking of trying out some of the clip-on pieces in purple/blue/burgundy.


Must have products...
For hair: Keyto Ultra Amazing Gel, and Garnier Fructis Sleek & Shine Leave-In Conditioning Cream
For skin: Alba Sea Plus Renewal Cream
For makeup: Maybelline Lash Stiletto Ultimate Length Washable Mascara, and Revlon ColorStay 12 Hour Eye Shadow Nude Elements

On being naturally curly...
You know the feeling you get when you've been running around all day and you finally get home, sit down and take your shoes off? That's how it feels being naturally curly. It's a feeling of freedom and comfort... that's the best thing.



On current projects and music...
My songs are conversation starters. My upcoming album, "Supercharged!" is like a go-to-guide for how to deal with different things that happen in relationships. Not a Breakup Song is the latest single that's out. It's the follow-up to Everything Around You (a song that touched on realizing when you're not happy in a relationship and what comes next).

Also, I've been cast in a movie that will be filming in the Cayman Islands. And, I'm preparing for a series of concerts that I'll be giving to benefit the Girls Are Not for Sale Campaign, a project of the anti-sex trafficking organization GEMS (Girls Education and Mentoring Service).

Catch up with Kwanza Jones on her website www.kwanzajones.com

CN: How long have you been natural?
I had been relaxing my hair since I was 16. When I went into TV news, the blow drying and heat several times a day just took its toll. In late '08, I was hospitalized for asthmatic bronchitis. When I got out, I went right to the hairdresser for a touch up. The next week, my hair was like tissue paper, thin and BROKEN! I transitioned for 3 1/2 months and BC'd on March '09.


CN: What is your current regimen?
Once a week, I pre-poo with warm Olive oil, usually overnight. The next morning I cleanse with Organic Curl Maintenance Shampoo, a sulfate free shampoo. I follow that with a deep conditioner and then oil my scalp with Jamaican Black Castor Oil. In the evening I moisturize and seal and then place a plastic bag over my head. I baggy probably 5-7 nights a week. In the morning I co wash with VO5 conditioner and use Hair Rules in the shower for curl definition. I sit under the dryer or loosely blow out my hair on the low, cool setting.

CN: How do you maintain length? Moisture?
The baggying at night has done wonders for me in retaining moisture and length. I carry in my little make up kit, a travel size moisturizer that I apply once or twice a day while I'm on the run.

CN: How do you protect your curls at night?
I sleep on a satin pillow case and use a satin scarf over the plastic bag. Whenever I rollover I make a crunching noise. My poor husband..

CN: What would you tell a new natural, or transitioning diva?
BE PATIENT! I was so impatient when I first BC'd, all I thought about was hair, hair growth, hair length, hair everything. When I finally stopped paying so much attention to it (still caring for it but not obsessing) it started to grow. Remember that old adage " a watched pot never boils?" A watched hair follicle will take it's sweet time!

CN: What's the best thing about being naturally glamorous?
I love my hair because I feel like it suits my personality. Wild and unpredictable just like my curls. They are visually interesting and I look unlike anyone else walking down the street. I have not had one bad hair day since going natural because I feel like I am more accepting of it when it decides to do it's own thing. Oh yeah, and it's SUPER EASY!

CN: Anything else you want to add?
This is a lifetime journey/commitment. If you are good to your hair, it will return the favor. I never knew my hair could be this long and strong. But after I stopped beating the heck out of it with heat and chemicals, it began to show me real love and shows no signs of slowing down :)


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CN: What's your hair story? Also, you were natural early in your career, right? Why did you decide to straighten?
Chrisette: My hair story is one of a very healthy relationship. Although I was always changing my hair from relaxed, to braided to red to natural, no matter the style it was always healthy. I made sure to give a rest when needed and loved to nurture it. My dad would relax my hair or I’d go with my mom to the salon about once a week. She always made sure I looked fabulous for church on Sundays. I was her princess.

Yes I was natural early in my career. Honestly I’m not really sure why I changed it again. I just wanted to try something new and fun. I had my hair like that many times but I’m very open minded and I love change. I think my look at that time helped me to convey the sound that I wanted to portray.

CN: Did you have a transition period? If so, how did you wear your hair during this time?
Chrisette: This being my third BC, I already knew what I’d look like so I didn’t feel a need to transition very long because I wasn’t afraid of not having much hair. Actually before my latest BC I’d have to say my hair was probably more damaged then it had ever been. That was a result of over processing and far too much styling day after day for tours, and different types of shoots and appearances.

CN: After the BC, what were your thoughts and feelings?
Chrisette: I was so proud of my hair. I was even more proud of my heart and courage. In an effort to take my life back from the rigors of my career, the BC was my first step in a new healthier regimen that I’ve been wanting to adopt for a while now beginning with the head and then down. My natural hair is a symbol of a promise to myself to be kinder to myself.

CN: What or who inspired you to go natural again? Was it a spontaneous decision or a process?
Chrisette: I have the most incredibly beautiful mother and she BC’s all the time (our hair grows fast). She looked gorgeous upon her last BC and I felt like that was my next step towards feeling good about the way I treat my body. Also my cousins Christine and Alecia and their lovely mother Ginger and even many of my aunts have natural tresses. I feel like we are all each others twin now! I LOVE sitting next to my mom and having the same hair as her.

I’d been thinking about doing this for about a year. I was often told that fashion and kinks don’t mix well together. I was often discouraged with the thinking that perhaps my music would have to change for me to pull this look off. I believe that if this is what my heart is saying then my music which is from my heart will match just perfectly.

CN: How have your family and close friends reacted to your decision? Are they complimentary?
Chrisette: Everyone loves my hair. My band, New Genisis, who has become my family and crew came with me to the barber and they cheered like I won a million bucks! I only stick around people who are positive. No one in my circle would say anything negative about a decision they know I trust in. My dad told me I’m beautiful no matter what I do. He’s so fly. He was so excited about the new earnings I had to go shopping for. He loves fashion.

CN: How do you feel the industry will react? Are you concerned about how music executives, your fans, or the media will view your natural hair?
Chrisette: L.A. Reid and Def Jam have been extremely supportive of my creativity. This is the way my hair was when they signed me. When my mother asked an executive what she thought of one of the pictures she said “I don’t know why she changed it in the first place.” That was comforting to know. Truthfully however, I must say, that I’m not very good at hearing things I don’t want to hear. My ears sort of turn off when someone tells me that what my heart is saying isn’t a good idea. Truth is, I cut my hair for freedom not for beauty.


CN: How do you plan to rock this newly natural fade? Hats, weaves, wigs? What are your length goals?
Chrisette: I have all these cute lil vintage head pieces I’ll play with, I have tons of head bands I’ve been collecting. The band came over after the barber shop visit and helped me dye it blonde. I’m not sure if that’s a healthy option. I may keep it my natural color if this shade is too harsh for my hair. I want a big bunch of hair on my head, just wild like it used to be. I really enjoyed that. I plan to grow my natural hair for a long time.

CN: What do you think of the pressure you will inevitably experience from the industry to return to a straight style? How do you plan to deal with it? We all experience this struggle in our daily lives, but we are not in an international spotlight the way you are!
Chrisette: God hasn’t given us the spirit of fear but sometimes our flesh fights our heart. Every once in a while I’m afraid in my natural body even though my spirit knows precisely what it wants to do. I can never let what any one says shake me into being something I’m not. I have to be brave. Every TV stage I walk on, I shake. Every controversial interview I do, I shake. Every time I change anything, including my hair, I shake. My record label knows me. I speak softly but, I don’t lie. When I know what I want I say it. My shaven head is my way of saying “I wont take no for an answer”, it is my way of saying “I believe in my creativity and artistry”. This is how I’ve chosen to express myself and guess what? I’m shaking. But that’s okay with me because I’m conquering my fears and living out of the box.

CN: Great skincare and makeup serve to enhance a BC to its fullest beauty potential. Obviously you've got that routine on lock! Please share some of your skin tips with us...what's your favorite cleanser, moisturizer, brand of makeup?

I'm an ivory girl at heart. I like to be clean and pretty natural. My diva takes over on stage and for appearances, and can be a little dramatic at times but if you see me on the street, my face is probably going to be pretty bare.

CN:Will your future music reflect your decision to BC? Meaning will your next album be more of the true Chrisette and less of what the industry wants you to put out?
Chrisette: You’ve never heard from me anything that I wasn’t comfortable with. I feel insulted when people ask me if the “industry” asked me to do something, especially when it came from my heart. I work very hard to stay honest. Nevertheless, this album will likely sound very bold. I’ll be working closely with my own writing and production team. I think you will all feel a sense of control and focus that you haven’t heard from me before. I’ve learned alot about myself and I believe I finally know what I want to share about my own personal life. I’m not afraid to share my story anymore.



CN: Will you be trusting your coils to someone, or will you be handling haircare yourself.....& if so, what products have you used or would like to try?
Chrisette: HA!!!!! The excitement of all of this is the fact that I’ll be doing my own hair most of the time! I plan to do flat twists and two strands twists in the future but oooh girl I’m excited to be underneath the loving, caring, styling of my own ten nurturing fingertips!

CN: Who are your natural inspirations?
Chrisette: My mother and her sisters and my darling cousins as I mentioned earlier. Kelis and Solange have been my most recent inspirations as they are highly fashionable and natural. Tracy Ellis Ross is such a lovely diva. India, my sister, has been such an inspiration in her boldness and courageous manner. Lastly my bff and gospel singer Danielle Lewis.

CN: What would you tell someone toying with the idea of transitioning or Big Chopping?
Chrisette: Do what’s best for you. What is your heart saying? Follow it. We are incredibly beautiful, us curly girls. Let’s be proud and supportive of each other. To be quite honest I’d have to say...are you ready for what I’m about to say? Ok... Don’t be one of those girls out there who have our beautiful curls but wear no smile, head is down, ain’t got no presence! Give it! Cat walk down the street! Rock that hair with the fiercest of outfits. This is not just a spiritual journey, it’s an incredible fashion statement that not everyone can wear! Treat it like a manicure or a new Prada bag and be the most amazing diva on your block. This beauty is fierce and it’s ours naturally! Let’s make each other proud! Amen?!

CN: What was the attitude surrounding women and hair in your family when you were younger, and how did that affect you as you transitioned into the music scene? Also, to what extent do you feel that returning to your roots will effect the way women are viewed in the music industry?
Chrisette: Well in the church I was raised in the women were VERY feminine. Their hair was a big part of their person. I was groomed to be lady like and quite girly. I think that I’m always aware of my poise and diction because of that up-bringing. Put together. Sharp. Much of my life, I must say, is an experiment. My mom is the planner. I’m free spirited. I try to think long and hard about things but my ADD tends to act up. I wonder if R&B music will be affected by my hair. I wonder if I can change the ridiculous image that plagues our community. I despise the fact that if you aren’t wearing a certain outfit and a certain cut, you aren’t cool. I am in the business of tearing down barriers. I did it with the stereotype that thick girls couldn’t be fashionable. With my latest album debuting at #1 I realized that people were comfortable with my presentation. Now I will make sure my hair is just as accepted. This is my heart you see. This is self expression. This is me.

CN: How did you hear about CurlyNikki.com?!
Chrisette: Can you believe I was referred to CurlyNikki.com while tweeting my twit-fam about where to go for super kewl natural styles and and hair care?

CN: Anything else you'd like to add?
Chrisette: I am so grateful for the bold acceptance I’ve received from my sisters. I think together we are breaking down barriers in the main stream and I’m excited about our journey ahead. There is a new integrity and honesty that we are experiencing that says “Take us as we are, or don’t take us at all”. There is a new pride rising from our community reminiscent of the times when we knew each others poetry, and held our fists in the air. We are going to support each others new business ventures, we are going to see each other in graduate schools, we will see each other in government and we will lift each other out of this depression. It starts in the heart and I pray I’ve inspired many of my sisters to follow theirs.

Hola Chicas,

So this morning while blogging and checking emails, my iphone dinged and in came an email from a 'C. Michele'. I immediately opened it and was surprised to see that the sender's first name was Chrisette! Of course I thought it was an elaborate hoax, lol... but get this, it wasn't! She was referred to CN.com by friends and really loves the atmosphere. After an email interchange and quick phone convo, we worked out the logistics and will hopefully have an interview for you guys next week!

She recently made the decision to go natural, Big Chopped, and wants to give the CN.com community the exclusive! How lucky are we?!

So my lovely curlies, I'm asking you to help me structure the interview. What questions would you like answered?


Later Gators,
Nik

Bibi McGill, world famous guitarist, actress and model is a force to be reckoned with. I first saw her on stage with B at the American Music Awards... her tattooed arms and massive fro demanded my attention, and she was screaming FIERCE! Prior to her current gig as Beyoncé's lead guitarist, she was rocking out with Pink across the pond.

Here, she dishes on everything from her bodacious fro to her experiences working with Beyoncé!



Curly Nikki: Tell us your Hair Story!

I come from a family of stylists; my mom and sister are beauticians, my dad is a barber. My mom started relaxing my hair when I was 10, and whether it was pressed or relaxed, it always looked nice and healthy. I was very spoiled when it came to my hair and didn't have to think about it much.

Later on, I began wearing dookie braids, extensions and micros. This quickly became very expensive and was ridiculously time consuming. About 8-9 years ago, I took out the dookie braids and never looked back, lol. I washed it, colored it (big red chunks), and walked out of the salon. At this time, I still had some relaxed ends... they grew out over the next year or so. When I walked out of the salon that day I received a ton of compliments... from friends, family and strangers. People loved it! I had no idea it was going to be so cool -- I even got more work! Everyone wanted the girl with the big afro and tattoos. So my journey to natural just sort of happened. It wasn't cool or in to have an afro then... I was just doing it for financial reasons. It worked out. One thing I've learned is that regardless of what I do to my hair, it's going to be a lot of maintenance.

CN: Have you always liked your curls? If not, how did you come to embrace your natural hair?

The texture of my hair is something I've always liked. I always got perms because it was what I was used to -- it's how I was raised. But when I went natural, I loved it and felt completely free.

CN: What is your current routine?

If I'm on the road, I have to wash it before every show. Two hours on stage leaves me completely drenched, and my hair shrunken and frizzy. So, the next day, before the show, I have to wash and style it again. Usually, I end up doing it about four times a week.
When I'm home, however, I only wash and style once or twice a week.

When I say wash, I mean conditioner wash. I no longer use shampoo. I use conditioner to cleanse, and a different conditioner to detangle. I let it air dry half way, and finish it off with a blowdryer/diffuser to speed up drying time and add body and length.

I deep condition about once a month, but want to step it up to twice a month. I use cholesterol but look forward to trying some new products.

By the way, I always do my own hair. I stopped letting other people touch my hair when I went natural.

CN: What are your staple hair styles?

The afro is my staple style, but sometimes, I wear cornrows when I'm off... but those don't last very long because I end up having to do something work related and people always ask, "What happened to your big hair?" I'm thinking of trying twists because they're low maintenance and maybe I'll be able to keep my hands out of my head for a while.

CN: Must-have products?!

I'm always trying something new! I was using a lot of Carol's Daughter , but after a while I wasn't getting the results I wanted (especially for how much they cost). I do still enjoy the Khoret Amen Hair Oil, and plan to keep it in my rotation.

I'm really liking Oyin Handmade products. A lot of products claim to be all-natural, but to me, Oyin appears to be as natural as you can get -- no chemicals or preservatives. I use their honey hemp conditioner, their whipped pudding, the shine and define, head-to-toe wash (not shampoo) and frank juice herbal leave-in spray conditioner. Sometimes I use castor oil as a pre cleanse conditioner.

CN: What's the best thing about being naturally curly?

To be able to look in the mirror and know that it's all me -- it's all mine, it's all my texture! That is something to truly take pride in! My lifestyle is very natural, very holistic -- from the food I eat, to the products I use on my skin. It's been a part of me for so long that I don't even think about it anymore. It's freedom. I don't have to alter my hair or change it to be beautiful. My fro has gotten me way more work, more confidence, and more compliments than I ever received when I was wearing the extensions and braids.

CN: What projects are you currently working on?

I just got back from tour two days ago, so I'm not trying to work on anything right now! I plan to take good care of myself, experiment with my hair some, and take some time to travel. I want to go back to Brazil for a few months. I really want to get into the culture, the language and the music there. I hope to deepen my practice in yoga, and just enjoy my life. Not that I don't enjoy being on the road, but sometimes it doesn't allow me to do things I truly love.




Readers Questions

CNReader: Tell us about your yoga journey and what inspired your holistic lifestyle.

I've been spiritual and drawn to a holistic lifestyle since I was very young. My parents didn't raise me that way -- I was raised to believe in God, and have good moral values, but my interest in a more natural way to live was all me. I grew up in a typical black family -- eating chitterlings, fried chicken, pigs feet, etc. At a very early age, I became interested in eating cleaner and healthier.

In 1998 I took my first yoga class. I felt clear, I felt energized... I felt HIGH! I felt like I had literally sniffed or smoked something, lol. I knew that it was something I wanted to incorporate into my lifestyle. About six years ago, I took a class to become certified to teach yoga -- I studied meditation, the philosophy, Sanskrit, the whole history of yoga. I then taught yoga for a year. I was happy and at peace, and had no interest in returning to my life on the road, I didn't think I'd ever pick a guitar back up! Then, I got the call from Beyoncé. Obviously, I couldn't pass that one up! I've been with B for the past 4 years, but I still practice yoga daily. It works well with my busy lifestyle and helps to keep me energized and balanced.

CNReader: How long have you been playing the guitar? Who or what inspired you to play?

I've been playing since I was 12 years old... so, for a while now. No one person in particular inspired me, it was actually the music my older sister and brother were listening to -- Earth Wind and Fire, and the Isley Brothers.

CNReader: Your tattoos are dope! What moved you to get them?

I was born and raised in Denver, Colorado, but most guess that I'm from NYC or California. I've always been very different, very artistic. I've always thought tattoos were nice, and I told my parents I wanted one. They took me to the parlor and I asked the artists tons of questions. I have sensitive skin and I wanted to make sure I'd be able to tolerate the new addition to my body. I received my first tattoo at 17, and didn't get another until many years later.

I have a Chinese Dragon, a scorpion (my sign), a female samurai (strength), a Japanese coy fish (peace and tranquility), among others. One arm is covered in Japanese imagery and in full color. The other is in black and white and consists of Polynesian tribal tattoos. It's inspired by creativity and art, and images and ideas I thought were beautiful and meaningful.

CNReader: How do the different nationalities react to your fro when you're overseas?

I wear my hair out overseas when I'm touring, or in a big bun on the top of my head. People respond the same, no matter where I am-- they want to touch it, they say, "It's so cool!" I'm talking people of all ages; men, women, even those who can't speak English will point and gesture at my hair and smile. It's a hit worldwide!

CNReader: Where do you see yourself in 10 years?

I see myself living a natural and peaceful lifestyle, whether I'm teaching yoga, playing guitar, or running a cafe. I wouldn't be surprised if I were somewhere living in the mountains, completely off the map, growing my own food and generating my own electricity!

CNReader: How did you get your start with Beyoncé? What has it been like working side-by-side with her?!

In 2006, Beyoncé did a worldwide press release saying she was looking to form an all-female band. I was teaching yoga at the time and started to get phone calls and emails telling me I should go to the audition... I wasn't interested at all. My dad, who is a barber in Denver, called me late that night and said someone called the house there looking for me. He didn't know who Beyoncé was! I told him "No way. I'm teaching yoga and don't want to play music anymore." When I hung up the phone I felt bad and decided that I would go to the audition just for my dad. I went, got the gig and have been making history ever since. I'm infinitely grateful for the opportunity to inspire so many people (mainly women) across the globe.

As for working side-by-side with Beyoncé... she's at the top of her game, so I have to be too. I have learned and grown tremendously over the past four years. She is human as we all are, but I admire and respect her. She's nice and has many great qualities.