I'm Not 26 and Neither Is My Hair...

by Sabrina Perkins of http://www.seriouslynatural.org/

Well, it's true. I'm not 26...I'm not 30...not even 35 and I passed up 40 a couple of years ago. Yup, that's right....I'm 42 and will hit 43 around Labor Day. What does that all mean? That just means my hair is 42 too and it ain't like it was when I was 26 just like my body isn't either.

I just wanted to share because if you are like me sometimes you miss the old you. The YOU that could eat anything, do anything, wear anything and do anything to your hair and you could bounce back with no issues, problems, or regret. I had thicker hair, a thinner body frame and didn't even need to wear a bra! Yea, that was a CHOICE at the time. Ha!

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"You Are Too Old for That Hairstyle."

Hairstyle and Colors Rules by Age

Red, yellow, blue, pink, orange, green, purple. I could be naming the colors in a rainbow or I could be describing someone’s hair. Vibrant and funky hair colors have become increasingly popular in the natural hair community. With cool innovations such as hair chalks and colored clip-ins, women no longer have to fear color damage. We can rock multiple hues at the same time without sacrificing our beautiful tresses. Though versatility of style and color are great, some say certain colors and styles should come with an age cap. I absolutely disagree.

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On the Couch with Pamela- 40 and Natural!

by Pamela Staver of Pamela Going Natural

I am a 43 year old curly transitioning to natural hair. I began my journey back in December of 2009 when I noticed that my hair was changing due to chemical relaxers, neglect, heredity and age. My hair, on the sides near the front, was beginning to thin. This really upset me! So, I decided, no more relaxing and that I was going to learn everything that I could about maximizing my hair’s health and taking care of it myself.

I began studying sites like Curlynikki and others online to get tips on how to care for my hair. I loved these sites but became really discouraged and disheartened to learn that because of my unique hair challenges, I’m not always able to achieve the styles and looks that I see on others. At first I was so tempted to big chop, but, because my hair had begun to thin and seemed to be growing considerably slower than when I was younger, I was afraid that if I chopped all my hair down to a TWA, that it would remain that way forever! You hear people talk about how they did the big chop thinking, “Hey, it’s just hair…it’ll grow back”. Well, I wasn’t so confident that mine WOULD grow back! So, I decided to do a long, slow transition.

I learned about protective styling, half-wigs and keeping my hair moisturized as well as handling it gently. To my delight, it does seem to be thriving and growing! Once I began to see some progress, I did start slowly trimming the relaxed ends off a little at a time. Now, about 14 months later, the back and sides of my hair are completely natural and I only have a little bit of relaxed hair left on the top. My natural hair is about 5.5 – 6 inches long in most spots on my head, when stretched. The hair at my temples doesn’t seem to be as thin anymore…at least it’s not getting any thinner – LOL! My initial goal was to grow out my natural hair to the point where it was about the same length as the relaxed hair was when I began my transition. I think I’ve reached that goal! Now, I’m aiming for shoulder length. I’ve also joined Kim Coles’ Grow Out Challenge on NaturallyCurly.com, so when the challenge ends in July, I plan to trim off the remainder of my relaxed ends…that is if I’ve reached my goal by then ;0) Check out my new Youtube channel for updates on my journey.

What struggles have you faced as an older curly and what solutions can you share with others?

Nyla and Her Curlfriends

Hey Nik:

I would like to thank you for your site! It is so amazing. Recently, I went all the way to California, and met two wonderful ladies from the 35+ thread in the forums!

These are truly my "PLAY COUSINS"! Wonderful friendships have developed as a result of hanging out on this site. From left to right:

Ryl is sporting a coil out
Sister Boyd is rocking a puff
Nyla Coils is wearing a twist out

We love you, Nikki!! and Baby G, too! :-)

35+ Naturals check in below!

40 Plus- Naturals and Thinning Hair

Wendy writes:

I've been natural for a little more than three years. I stopped relaxing because my hair began thinning. Now at 50 and completely natural, I still find that my hair sheds a lot. I often get compliments on my hair, but you ladies know, we know our hair, and my hair is not as thick as it used to be. I don't know... some are of the opinion that long hair is not for women over forty anyway.

What are your thoughts? Can you relate?

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