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Before You Go Natural You Should Know…

By January 27th, 20216 Comments

Before You Go Natural You Should Know...

by West Indian Beauty of Confessions of a Blog Vixen

With many of us now making more conscious choices about our health, there has been an increase in the number of women ditching relaxers and letting their God-given mane become the spotlight. While many are making this decision with thorough research, some are a little short on time and therefore are not completely aware of the complete picture beyond the added flyness and big hair.

Before Going Natural You Should Know…

Good Hair dressers are a needle in a haystack.

If you thought being able to find a hair dresser when your hair was relaxed was a difficult task, you should know that it is even more difficult to come across a hair dresser who knows how to manage natural hair. This is especially true when you consider there are so many more textures of natural hair that one must be able to understand. He or she must also be versed in what products work best for what hair type. Check out’s article on Qualities to Look for in a Stylist.

Figure out your hair type.

Hair products are usually geared towards a specific hair type. For example, someone with hair texture similar to Ananda Lewis would not garner the best results using products made for Jill Scott’s hair texture (i.e. product – Alma & Heavy Cream). Once you know your hair type, you will be more knowledgeable in selecting products. A good starting point to make things easier is to find a hair twin (someone who has a similar texture) and check out what products he or she may be using for each specific step in their routine. Although this does not mean everything one uses will work for the other, it will help to cut down on the trial and error. As a new or transitioning natural, you will experience enough of that on styling alone :). Check out to help figure your hair type.

Play in your hair!

People always wonder how some Naturals are able to style their hair so well, while others appear frustrated and not so well self-styled; that is usually because a well self-styled Natural gave herself time to become familiar with her hair. She played with her kinks and curls and did not hide her hair under weaves and wigs. Often times, frustration that results from being natural is because one kept their hair hidden and/or un-manipulated. I encourage you to play in your hair!

Protective styling helps to get your hair to increasing lengths.

This is something that is not commonly discussed. We are often consumed with using hair as an accessory by fluffing, puffing and swanging it that we forget all of those things can be detrimental if you are trying to efficiently grow your hair beyond its current length. Protective styling helps to keep your ends protected, avoiding breakage and everyday elements (i.e.-rubbing against clothing) which can result in weakened, vulnerable strands. One of my favorite YouTubers often talks about this and you can also see her journey from shorter natural hair to her current length of hair, below her bra strap. Check out KimmayTube.

You will become frustrated.

Rest assured, it’s usually only a phase. When we become frustrated we often revert to thoughts of relaxing. Stop! I recommend a long-term protective style by getting your hair braided or even a weave. This will give you time to really think about the steps that you are willing to take when moving forward. Once you remove the protective style, then you will be able to sort your true feelings regarding your hair. Typically, you would have determined that you’ve missed your hair and you will begin to appreciate it a little bit more. YouTuber CurlyChronicles had a great idea to create a video that generated comments from Naturals giving other Natural tips.

What tips do you have for those considering going Natural?


  • LaNeshe says:

    Definitely all valid tips.

  • Yvonna says:

    Well there is one thing for sure that when transitioning please don't go to tight on the braids. I was browsing through LHCF yesterday under "Oh My God Is She Serious" and there is a black woman with a forehead with no hair at all, because of alopeica. But someone took a picture of her and posted it online for everyone to see. But I can't find it now on the site, but I do remember which site had the picture posted on the picture and found it. Ladies its shocking so just copy and paste and you will see the horror of it.

  • Candicay says:

    Understand that your hair pattern is like fingerprints; it is unique to you and only you. If you have 4b hair, you will NEVER have 3a hair so stop envying and secretly coveting her hair. Your tightly coiled ringlets are beautiful as well. Once you understand your hair pattern, research what works best for your hair. One of the biggest mistakes naturals make is using products that are not for their hair texture; not all natural products are made for all natural girlies.

  • Anonymous says:

    "Good Hair dressers are a needle in a haystack."

    Talk about infelicitous phrasing and capitalization. Hard not to read "Good Hair"

  • Ms. Sassy says:

    I definitely agree with A Simple Thing. You have to be accepting of the hair God gave you and not expect your have to perform miracles to look like others. Patience is something you will have to have. Also, know you don't have to BC either. Its your choice. You have to find whats best for your hair

  • A Simple Thing says:

    There's a massive difference between hair inspiration and hair envy. Some people go natural with a certain image of what their hair is going to look like and then are disappointed if it isn't what they thought it'd be.
    Every texture has lots of style options, and hopefully amongst all of them, you'll find one you'll like!

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