Andria writes:

Hi Curly Nikki Community,

I have two daughters- a nine and a three year old. They have two vastly different hair types. My oldest has tightly coiled, thick, long 4a hair, and my youngest has hair like myself, curly type 3b/3c. I have always taught my daughters that self love is #1, but we have had a very difficult time with jealousy of hair types with my oldest daughter. I allow my youngest to wear her hair out, but I feel it necessary to keep my oldest in protective styles, because she retains length better that way.

How can I better manage the jealousy? The jealousy over hair types as well as styling options.