I know that back when I had a perm and especially extensions in, I didn’t want anyone with their hands all up in my hair, running about, feeling for tracks etc. But since I BC’ed, people seem to have an even greater fascination with my hair and want to touch it. What do you do when people ask?
Nik responds: I do, as long as their motives are genuine and I’m in a good mood. Whenever I run into a CN reader out and about, one of the first requests after discussing which products were used that day, is to touch my hair. Most times, I ask to touch her’s right back! Now, if I’m at the club and some random dude asks (while I may be flattered, lol), the answer is ‘hells no’ 🙂