I would like to hear about your dating experiences. I’m tripping out over here, because I don’t think it’s a coincidence that I’m approached more often when I’m wearing a fresh roller set or press and curl. When I step out with my curly ‘fro, or dope twist-out, the compliments cease and I’m hardly ever noticed. It’s like I become invisible. I feel most beautiful and sexy with my kinks and coils, but the men I come across don’t seem to think so. It’s gotten so bad that I now straighten my hair for first dates. I feel bad about that, but on the other hand, time is ticking away, I’m quickly approaching 35, and I want kids.