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I Big Chopped- Eli Monroe

By January 27th, 202114 Comments

CN: When you first chopped, what were your thoughts and feelings? How do you feel now?
E: I wasn’t scared at all when I chopped. The only thing I worried about was my head shape, and I was a little bit anxious to see what the cut would look like on me. After I chopped though, I loved my new hair! I love the way it feels knowing that I actually made the decision to embrace my natural hair and texture.

CN: How did you cope with the responses from your friends and family?
E: My mom let me know, when I first started transitioning, that there would always be somebody with something negative to say about my decision. So I sort of knew exactly what I was getting into when I decided to chop. I transitioned for 6 months and cut December 31st. To this day, I believe that my BC was one of the best decisions I’ve ever made in my life. Most of the people at my school didn’t understand why I would chop all of my hair off my sophomore year of high school. Why not prepare myself now so when I make it to college, I’ll be too fly!

CN: What are your plans for your hair?
E: Growth! Growth! Growth! My current goal right now is to have healthy shoulder length hair. Right now it’s four inches long when stretched. Growth and Health!

CN: Do you find it necessary to ‘doll up’ your look to feel more feminine?
E: Ever since I can remember, I’ve been an earring fanatic. I love earrings that are big, small, hooped, and dangling. I love them all. I can’t walk out of the house to go anywhere without earrings. I couldn’t before the chop, and I most definitely can’t now! As far as “dolling up” though, I would consider my style very laid back and sort of effortless. I don’t wear makeup and have never been the type to “doll up” myself. The most I really do, when I rock my shrinkage, is put in a couple of bobby pins.

CN: How do you keep it moisturized?
E: Even before I big chopped, I was addicted to CurlyNikki, Youtube, Natural Hair Blogs, and Tumblr. I would definitely say I did my research times ten. Before I chopped, I collected a lot of products! My staple style is the wash and go, Most of the time I condition with extra virgin olive oil and coconut oil.

CN: How do you get your curls or waves popping?
E: My favorite product right now is Shea Moisture’s Coconut and Hibiscus Curl and Style Milk. It smells delicious!

CN: How do you preserve your curls at night?
E: It’s still really short. I don’t wrap it. I just sleep on a satin pillowcase.

CN: What would you tell a new TWA teen or a teen considering Big Chopping?
E: Don’t ever be afraid to chop just because you’re young, in high school, or junior high. We’re young. We are still figuring out who we are and our purpose in this world. So never be afraid to do something against the norm. You never know. That decision just might turn into the decision that sets the rest of your life in motion!

before

I Big Chopped- Eli Monroe

after!

I Big Chopped- Eli Monroe

14 Comments

  • BekkaPoo says:

    What a lovely, head-on-right, young lady! You are a leader miss thing, and you're right.. that thing you do different from everyone else in the world is what will make you stand out and have people copying YOU. 🙂 I've seen it happen. Keep doing what you're doing and you will go far in life.

  • Anonymous says:

    Very beautiful!

  • Carlisa B. says:

    I big chopped January 23 & I am a sophmore too 😀
    A lot of people told me I was brave lol and that they could never do it. Boys are always telling me man you should've never cut your long hair. I doesn't bother me though. I have my mom's support so I am alright. I wanted to go natural now because I thought, Hey! why wait until college?

  • Anonymous says:

    You go girl! You and your hair are super cute!! Big shout out to your mom for the love and support.

  • Sharmer says:

    Are you telling me thats only 6 months of growth? Wow! Amazing

  • Anonymous says:

    Love it! You look fantastic, girl!

  • Anonymous says:

    I wish that I was you in highschool!!! Your hair and more importantly your attitude is beautiful!

  • Dee W says:

    It's beautiful! Love it!

  • Anonymous says:

    So beautiful! You are a shining example for naturals and soon-to-be naturals!

  • DrChuck24 says:

    loving the hair…you are oozing with confidence girl!

  • Anonymous says:

    I love your confidence and your outlook on life. I wish I had this much confidence when I was your age.

    Best wishes

  • Unknown says:

    You're hair is so cute. You are an inspiration to young aspiring naturals.

  • Anonymous says:

    I know we're not supposed to compare, but if that bottom pic is your bc hair after a 6 month transition…..wow!!!! That's a lot of hair! Gorgeous!!

  • Califia's Lap says:

    You and your hair are lovely!!! I'm proud of you for being so fierce! You give me hope for all the young ladies out there.

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