Afro_Barbie (not photographed) of the forums writes;

As of August 19, 2011, I have been natural for 1 year, 4 months, & 3 days! BY NO MEANS do I regret my decision but lately Ameenah (my hair) and I have not been doing very well…I’m trying to love her but she will not listen to me. She just refuses to do anything I say! I never imagined having bad hair days like this. Ugh! I realize now we got a love hate thing going on! She’s been dry, no curls, just lifeless… I think I’ve found the problem, hopefully we can make up soon.

All over this site I see positive posts about natural hair, but the reality is there are those dark days, weeks or months when your hair just wont do right… Puuuhleeeze tell me I’m not alone?

What are some of your fights with your hair and what did you do to solve it?