R&B and Jazz singer Lalah Hathaway is On the Couch! Often called the ‘First Daughter of Soul’, this amazing, Grammy nominated talent, has a gorgeous head of luscious locs and she’s telling all! Read on–
On her hair story…
I’ve had every kind of hair imaginable- – throughout the 70s and 80s I wore afros, weaves, dookie braids and micro braids. I had curly hair, straight hair, red, blonde, and even purple highlights at one point. I experimented quite a bit and at the end of the day, I guess you can say that I love hair. I really love hair… all kinds of hair styles and colors. And so at some point I decided that I wanted to loc my hair and it was expressed to me that it might not be a good idea. Which of course made me really want to loc it. And I did, in 1997.
On maintenance and upkeep…
I don’t do them myself, I find folks to do them. I have 117 locs, and if I try to twist them, right at number 16 or so, I just conk out. I can’t do the back at all.
I have a few stylists spaced out all over town and a few spaced out over the country. They all use different products that work very well, but I couldn’t even begin to tell you names. I’m very low maintenance and don’t even do much between appointments to keep them up. I am an extremely casual wash and wear type of chick. So for me, even in the beginning of wanting the locs, it represented freedom to not have to worry about what was going on with my hair. I had spent so much time in the chair watching them wet the hair, dry the hair, finding the right products for the hair… dying the hair, perming the hair, and it was just using up so much valuable brain power. It was taking up energy that I could have used writing a song every now and again. The locs for me were almost a detachment from having to obsess about my hair in a way.
On the naysayers…
When you’re in a major label, sometimes people decide that they have an idea or a dream for what you should look like or how you should present yourself. Locs did not fit into the picture in the early ’90s in terms of the kind of success that everybody wanted. As far as responses from my close friends and family… it was a mixed bag. The more I exuded confidence and became comfortable, the more comfortable they became.
On advice for people thinking of loc’ing…
I always tell women, if you’re thinking about loc’ing your hair, do it. It’s one of the best decisions I’ve ever made. Now that doesn’t mean that some mornings I don’t want to get up and chop them all off and get a full lace front… because sometimes, I have those days. I watched 3 Aalyiah videos the other day and I thought ‘oh, I miss that hair’. So what I’ve done is try to do things like that in the locs. I’m always trying new stuff and some of the photos from the new album you’ll see that I’m really just experimenting with my hair like I always did before. I love it! I love the flexibility I have. I love the fact that now wigs are hip and that was not the case in 1992. You can do whatever you want with your hair now. You can wear it straight and black one day or curly and blonde the next. I think people were less yielding in the ’90s, like they wanted you to get with a certain look and stick to it, and now girls just switch it up all the time.
On upcoming projects…
I have a new record, called, ‘Where it All Begins’ and it’ll be in stores and on Itunes and Amazon on October 18th 2011. I’m really excited about it! You can download my single ‘If you Want To’ from my website right now—lalahhathaway.com. It’ll be available on Itunes in the coming weeks. I’m in the process of gearing up for tour, so things are moving fast right now.
On the CurlyNikki community…
I’m on Twitter a lot and I get a lot of natural hair questions and I think it’s really wonderful. Like you said, if there are women that are thinking of loc’ing their hair, I’d tell them to go on and do it, it’ll grow like a flower and you’ll be amazed.
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#teamLocs She makes me wonder how many locs I have on my head
I love Lalah's music and hair! Thanks for the interview Nikki. ~KF519
Ms. Lalah on the couch was such a welcome surprise! Love her hair and reading about her back-story was a cool read. I have loved her music since "So They Say" — one of the most beautiful songs ever recorded by anyone on the face of the planet! Thanks Nik!
OK guys please tell me I looked up the wrong person because when she said I wore afros in the 70s I was like well how old is she? The info I found says she's 42 and there is just no way she looks like around 20! Beautiful!
I have always admired women with locs. Lalah Hathaway is such a beautiful woman inside and out and I absolutely love her music 😉
Ellegant Elle (natural hair blog: http://ellegantelle.blogspot.com)
She's beautiful and has the best smile ever! I love her hair as well. I'm glad she was on the couch. She seems so down to earth!
She really is stunning and I've always wanted to see her perform.
She is gorgeous! If I could guarantee my locs would look just like hers, I would consider loccing!!!!
tiannamae.blogspot.com
oh em gee, her hair in that second picture is ridiculously gorgeous. and i LOVE her voice. the eric roberson song she is on with him entitled dealing still gets incessant play on my ipod. lalah, if you're reading, your smile is equally as gorgeous.
Oh my God! Me and my sister saw Lalah Hathaway open for Prince at the Meadowlands in December and she blew us away! We had great seats but I couldn't find my glasses at first and under the lights all I saw was this ethereal, sky blue dazzling image floating across the stage! It's not my music but her voice, harmony and range just took the crowd's breath away! Prince was all over her too, very sexy, very Prince! When I finally found my glasses I was just stunned at how beautiful she was with long, curly, blondish-brown locs and her beautiful blue gown. Her locs are the most beautiful I've ever seen. Thank you CN for this interview! I'm going to try to find a picture of her that night online, hopefully her music, and face, will be made more visible to the public.
I adore Lalah Hathaway. If you have not seen her live, you are truly missing a wonderful experience. Her voice is silky smooth, love it!