by GG of PeaceLovenadPrettyThings
It doesn’t seem fair when he cheated on you and now he’s happily married and raising a family with the woman he cheated on you with. It stings when the job that fired you for unfounded reasons is growing in leaps and bounds and you are having trouble finding a job just to make ends meet.
Where’s the retribution? Have you ever felt this way?
I have a couple friends going through these things and the common theme I hear voiced through their frustration is that they feel they are being punished. They don’t understand why it seems that the people who have done them wrong are being rewarded.
Why do bad things happen to good people? No one on this earth can answer this question with certainty, but what I believe is that 1) What doesn’t kill us makes us stronger or teaches us something we needed to learn 2) We won’t get stronger if we view ourselves as victims and 3) When we’ve been wronged, we need to focus on our own healing and let go of our fixation with the person who hurt us.
I know it’s not easy. I’ve been trying to think of ways to comfort my friends through these situations, and I keep hearing myself say “Let go. This is not about them, this is about you. Don’t worry about what they think or if they are laughing at you or feeling sorry for you. The only thing you should be thinking about is how you will heal and move forward. Take the lesson and let it go.”
Do you have any advice to share based on what you’ve been through? Are you going through something right now? Consider the following affirmations: