You know how good you feel when you’re around that one friend? All of a sudden your uptight, awkward ass is funny, generous, adventurous, loving… goofy as hell. You actually LOL, til you cry or pee a little…you feel alive! You feel confident! You feel like… HER (aka the dopest version of yourself)!
That ‘you’ that you love so much is the realer, truer you. But you only allow HER to come out on occasion and around certain people.
When that friend comes over, you give yourself permission to stop pretending. You give yourself permission to RELAX. And in that moment of relaxation, you experience your real SELF, your natural state, as a current of joy or peace within. And when you’re steadily aware of that current, feeling it course through your inner world, you’re being HER.
Take the time and effort to find and stay in this current no matter what. Practice it constantly until you remember it’s who you are. That’s the work.