You know how good you feel when you’re around that one friend? All of a sudden your awkward ass is funny, generous, adventurous, and loving! You actually LOL, til you cry or pee a little…you feel alive! You feel confident. You feel like… HER (aka -the dopest version of yourself)!
That ‘you’ that you love so much, is the realer, truer you. But you only allow HER to come out on occasion and around certain people.
Your friend is awesome but (s)he doesn’t ‘cause’ you to feel Go(o)d. When she comes over, you simply give yourself permission to stop pretending. You finally give yourself permission to RELAX. And in that moment of relaxation, you experience your natural state as a current of joy or peace, within. And when you’re steadily aware of that current, feeling it course through your inner world, you have shifted. Now, you are confident. You are secure. You are HER.
Take the time and effort to find and stay in this current, no matter what. Practice this joy constantly until you remember it’s who you are. That’s the work. The current is Confidence… ‘Godfidence’. Stand in it. Be it. #BeHerNow #PauseAndLove