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How Planning My Wedding Reminded Me Of Something Else Slavery Took From Us

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Photo by Alekon pictures on Unsplash How Planning My Wedding Reminded Me Of Something Else Slavery Took From Us By Veronica Wells-Puoane of NoSugarNoCreamMag.com Despite some ominous, misery-loves-company-ass-predictions, my wedding planning process and my actual wedding day went very smoothly. (Thanks in large part to a groom who didn’t really care what I did and the leadership of my Jill…

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Black Women: Mistress Marley Explains How Findom Healed Her from Corporate Trauma

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Photo by Calvin Lupiya on Unsplash Black Women: Mistress Marley Explains How Findom Healed Her from Corporate Trauma As told to Veronica Wells-Puoane of NoSugarNoCreamMag.com Originally published on MadameNoire Most of us are waiting for the government to pay us what they owe us in the form of reparations. But Mistress Marley collects hers through her individual clients: white men…

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I Got Pregnant Out of Wedlock – My Pastor Denied Me Communion

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Photo by Daniel Adesina on Unsplash I Got Pregnant Out of Wedlock – My Pastor Denied Me Communion As told to Veronica Wells-Puoane of NoSugarNoCreamMag.com Originally published on MadameNoire.com Earlier this week, we stumbled upon this tweet from Kia, where she briefly shared that her hometown pastor denied her communion. When I was 18, my pastor stopped serving me communion…

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Black Feminist: When You Tell A Hotep You’re A Feminist

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Image by Dellon Thomas from Pixabay Black Feminist: When You Tell A Hotep You’re A Feminist By Veronica Wells-Puoane of NoSugarNoCreamMag.com You have to be careful who you smile at in the street–especially when you’re in New York City about to board the train. Interact with the wrong person and you can be stuck talking to an over-eager stranger for the next thirty…

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Black Women Take Care Of Black Women & Other Lessons From Robyn Crawford’s “A Song For You”

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Photo by Junior REIS on Unsplash Black Women Take Care Of Black Women & Other Lessons From Robyn Crawford’s “A Song For You” By Veronica Wells-Puoane of NoSugarNoCreamMag.com When I learned that Robyn Crawford, Whitney Houston’s longtime friend and former business partner, was writing a book about their lives together, I didn’t think that she was disturbing Whitney’s “rest” as…

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