By Veronica Wells In a lot of ways, I grew up in the “I’ll take your man” era. The sentiment was in the music. Terry McMillan was writing about it in Waiting To Exhale (which I read probably a little too early), and most importantly they were in the warnings from elders. For better or …
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Quad & Dr. G’s Cheating Scandal Got Us Wondering, is it Ever Justified to Cheat?
Quad Webb Lunceford and Dr. Gregory Lunceford By Brenda Alexander Their marriage started off rocky with them canceling the wedding just weeks before getting hitched only to turn around and jump the broom in a ceremony while guests watched with side-eyes at a later date. Being newlyweds on reality tv didn’t help. She took pride …
Remember When We Thought the Worst that Could Happen in a Relationship Was Cheating?
By Veronica Wells My friend of nearly twenty years was visiting me this past weekend. So naturally, we were reminiscing over our middle and high school years. As she was describing how our classmates’ lives had turned out, she said, “Remember when the worse thing we thought a man could do in a relationship was …
Cheating Is Nothing New. But is it Worse When Women Do It?
By Veronica Wells The following is a true story. There was a Black woman married to an Italian man. Although we never really know what’s going on in someone’s marriage, by all accounts, this was a happy one. The man wasn’t a model but he was kind to her, provided for her and her children, …
Chasing Tail: Men & Women’s Pursuit of The Ass
Nikki, Cardi & Beyonce By Dawn Washington Over the last month or so I’ve been taking in bits and pieces of what’s happening in the cultural zeitgeist: Beyoncé and Coachella, Cardi B blowing up the spot, Nikki Minaj dropping her latest, Chun Li, and I got to thinking. What is the relationship between these three …
The Common Sense Lesson That Everyone Can Learn From Kloe & Tristan Thompson
Tristan Thompson and Khloe Kardashian By Brenda Alexander By now, you’ve already heard that Khloe Kardashian’s basketball player boyfriend, Tristan Thompson, was caught on video tonguing other women down in clubs throughout the country while his 9-month-pregnant girlfriend was home prepping to give birth to their first child. To escalate matters, Kardashian went into labor …
Tell It Tues: Natural Born Cheaters? Men & the Stigma That Haunts Good Ones
Jay-Z on CNN with Van Jones By Ta-ning Connai If Beyonce can get cheated on, what kind of hope is left for us mere mortals? I mean, her name probably stands for Sexy Singing Goddess of Music and Dance! Yet all that amazing mix of talent, beauty and love didn’t stop Jay-Z from committing the …
A Woman Having Revenge Sex At Work For 2 Years Gets A Reality Check
Via Essence.com Dear Abiola, I have been married to my dear husband for two and a half years. Unfortunately, I have also been having revenge sex with a man at work for two years. Continue It may sound like a mess, but my husband cheated first. I found out two days before we got married …