Self-Concept Thursday

Sep 21

Is It Really Real?

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by GG of AllTheManyLayers Somewhere along the way we decide who we are and what our lives are going to be about. Nothing wrong with that, right? The problem comes when we create a substitute life or an image that we present to the world (and to ourselves) that is not real. The substitute life is made up of…

Sep 21

Removing All Obstacles That Keep You From Yourself

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by GG of All The Many Layers "Certain springs are tapped only when we are alone. The artist knows he must be alone to create; the writer, to work out his thoughts; the musician to compose; the saint, to pray. But women need solitude in order to find again the true essence of themselves.” - Anne Morrow Lindbergh I used…

Sep 21

You’re Not Crazy, You’re Introverted.

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by GG of AllTheManyLayers I've always been shy and self-conscious, afraid of embarrassing myself. I cannot remember a time when I didn't feel this way. I wanted to be perfect. I wanted to look perfect, fit in with everyone and never miss a beat. Say-all-the-right-things perfect. Always-get-the-joke perfect. I never lived up to these goals, but in my head these…

Sep 21

What If I Die Before I Get it Right?

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by GG of AllTheManyLayers I have all kinds of irrational fears. I'm not good enough, smart enough, strong enough. I can't focus long enough to complete a big project. I can't handle having lots of money. Read On!>>> I annoy people by being who I am. If I don't hurry up, someone else will do what I want to do…

Sep 21

The Big, Bigger, Biggest Problem

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source by GG of Allthemanylayers.com My problem, your problem, everyone's problem... Is that we think we are not supposed to have any problems. Read On!>>> We've been conditioned to avoid problems, mistakes and hardships. So when we struggle, we are not only dealing with the objective situation. We are also dealing with our emotional reaction to it and the belief…

Self-Concept Thursday

Is It Really Real?

Removing All Obstacles That Keep You From Yourself

You’re Not Crazy, You’re Introverted.

What If I Die Before I Get it Right?

The Big, Bigger, Biggest Problem

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