#self-esteem - CurlyNikki

Sep 21

The Big, Bigger, Biggest Problem

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source by GG of Allthemanylayers.com My problem, your problem, everyone's problem... Is that we think we are not supposed to have any problems. Read On!>>> We've been conditioned to avoid problems, mistakes and hardships. So when we struggle, we are not only dealing with the objective situation. We are also dealing with our emotional reaction to it and the belief…

Sep 21

Real Hair Talk: “I Regretted The Big Chop”

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by Kanisha Parks of BlackNaps.org To be honest with you, I had no idea what “natural hair” was. It was foreign, but eye-opening, the idea of not getting relaxers anymore- something I had been doing since I was eight years old. To my understanding, a relaxer was just something every young black girl did. The best thing about getting a…

Sep 21

What Meditation and Sex Have to Do With Writing

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source by GG of AllTheManyLayers I won’t beat around the bush. It’s damn hard to get in the mood sometimes. You know you’ll be happy once you get going, you know it will feel good and you will be refreshed when it’s done, but getting into the mindset of doing it is challenging when you have so many things on…

Sep 21

When We Judge Ourselves Most Harshly

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source by GG of All The Many Layers "A writer – and, I believe, all persons – must think that whatever happens to him or her is a resource. All things have been given to us for a purpose, and an artist must feel this more intensely. All that happens to us, including our misfortunes, all is given…

Sep 21

How I Changed My Subconscious Beliefs About My 4c Natural Hair

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by Nicole of www.nicoleelissa.com I am thrilled to share in this article how my desire to feel authentic and true to myself around my hair, helped me to uncover the subconscious beliefs that were dominating my reality around my beauty. I'm proud to say that I was able to transform them completely, to the point that I am now a…